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Everyone I’ve met over the last year that I’ve been interested in (and my ex gf of 4 years) keep giving me hugely mixed messages and never committing to me and I’m just sick of it
I have a lot of emotion towards the people I’ve dated and I’m friends with all of my exes but I’m finding it so hard to not feel fucking dreadful when they pull back.
I saw an ‘ex’ (we saw each other for three months last year) last night for old job reunion drinks and we get on so well - I’m happy being her friend, but she kept flirting with me all evening, saying she couldn’t hug me as it was confusing for her, touching me, dancing on me. I took her outside and told her that I still like her and she needs to shit or get off the pot basically and she said she just liked the in between.
My ex and I have been confused as well - we’ve slept together, we still love each other, but she can’t commit to getting back together or even figuring out what the game plan is.
Everyone I’ve slept with seems to pull away from me and it sets my symptoms completely on fire - no one is sure about me, I’m a bit of fun, I’m good to have around but it’s never taken seriously and I’m fed up. I just want someone to feel about me the way I feel about them and stop treating me like a game. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

The JBP is back after a wild week of news which starts with some drama surrounding Pelicans forward Zion Williamson after a pregnancy announcement. Dating rumors swirl between Kelis & Bill Murray (1:03:01), Travis Rudolph’s case reaches a verdict as the former NFL player is found not guilty (1:16:40), & B. Simone is facing backlash for promoting her close friends during a time of grief (1:27:15). Also, Azealia Banks attacks DC Young Fly with disgusting comments (1:36:50), the gang talks new music (1:47:08), Amber Rose & Joseline Hernandez fight (2:37:55), + MORE!
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In 2020 I had a mental breakdown and I decided I was trans. Lashed out at my family and friends, started doing lots of drugs... I'd only ever done drugs socially, now I was seeking them out for recreation. Spent tons of money and time on something that at the end of the day I didn't want to do. I'd indoctrinated myself into thinking that fucking around with my endocrine system was the only way I'd ever be able to fit into society.
Spent about a year on estrogen before I couldn't take being alienated from my parents anymore. Went back, apologized for what I said and did. I never went on some grand de-trans crusade, I just started focusing more on trying to live the way I wanted to live. The people who """accepted""" me then """accept""" me now, though I don't think I'll ever be credible with my extended family again. The conservative branches think I'm some a secret pervert and the liberal branches think I'm a repressing sell-out. I used to be the funny, athletic cousin that everybody would entrust the kids with at family reunions. Now, funnily enough, both groups see me in the same light with opposite valences attached to it.
I've been au naturale for a year and a half now, but I still feel some effects. My left testicle has random, painful tingles. Don't really know why, it never happened when I was on e. I like to think it's getting better, the frequency is getting lower. I think I had some bone/joint deterioration, because I had a lot of lower spine pain for a while which has gotten way better in the past 4 months. appearance wise it's like basically nothing changed. I didn't really grow boobs, I didn't have any surgeries, really all that happened is I had super pretty hair and skin for a year. And now I'm fat. A phase. Guess that's what it was. On to the next thing.
What it comes down to is that I really can't feel like I'm anything other than damaged goods. That feels like such a faggy thing to write but it's what goes through my head constantly. People don't treat me differently in a way that I can put a label on, but I must give off some kind of aura, like "this guy's seen some shit". It drives me insane. The idea of trying to date someone in my current emotional state is maddening, and frightens me. I would like to get back into dating but I feel like I was more successful at that when I was crossdressing. It's so much easier to get attention as a girl than as a manlet. Whatever, I guess.
My mom keeps hinting to me that she thinks I would make such a good priest and trying to show me the catholic podcasts she likes, and I wish she would stop doing that. My dad randomly brings up trans-adjacent politics now, and I really wish he'd stop doing that. He's trying to provoke me I think, but asking him to stop would just show that he's getting to me, so hopefully it will stop being a major political issue soon. The scarier thought of course, is that it will never blow over and I'm just going to be the family ex-tr*nny forever. Bleak thoughts.
Somedays I want to cry. So far I haven't let myself because there's been always "a next thing" to do, and I needed to stay focused, but increasingly I'm getting to a point where all that's left is to live the life I'm in now. Suxx2suk, gitgud m8. I have this ever present, low-level nihilism. When I was trans, I worked unbelievably hard at my job, cuz I was convinced that if I made enough money to cut off the parts of me that were causing the problems then I could stop feeling miserable and just live happily. A stupid solution, but a solution nonetheless. Now there are no solutions in sight, just goals. Buy a car, go back to school, get an apartment, cha-cha-cha. Last week I fell quite ill and it threw off my mojo; haven't been able to get back on the wagon.
Monday is going to be rough.

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The JBP is back after a wild week of news which starts with some drama surrounding Pelicans forward Zion Williamson after a pregnancy announcement. Dating rumors swirl between Kelis & Bill Murray (1:03:01), Travis Rudolph’s case reaches a verdict as the former NFL player is found not guilty (1:16:40), & B. Simone is facing backlash for promoting her close friends during a time of grief (1:27:15). Also, Azealia Banks attacks DC Young Fly with disgusting comments (1:36:50), the gang talks new music (1:47:08), Amber Rose & Joseline Hernandez fight (2:37:55), + MORE!
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I finally opened myself up to dating again after a disastrous reunion with my ex. We met on a dating site, and for 2 months talked about everything, but because of my guarded heart and a bit of depression. I couldn't bring myself to meet him. Well 10 days ago I thought what am I doing? Give this man your number, so I did. We talked for 5 hours, set a date, met, and met again. I've never felt more connected to another person as a do with him. After a 3rd date, he pulled his phone and with a sweet comment and a wink, he deleted the app and I did too. We found each other and going on this journey together. Too soon to feel this way? Maybe, but I'll drink in every moment with my pink haired, enby joyfriend.

I watched the show before meeting my husband, so dating him and getting to know him was WILD because I felt like I was dating an irl Marshall.
The similarities:
He's very tall. And overall a big, strong guy.
He's a lawyer.
He went to school in the midwest (though not originally from there...)
He's from a family of boys.
He adores his dad (who is still living!)
He's always wanted kids to be his own family man.
He makes up and sings songs to remember things like passwords.
AND MOST RECENTLY. He was saying he wants to bring a camera to an upcoming family reunion to film it...and I immediately thought of Marshall's photo collages put to music after an event.
Anyone else with a character from the show?
(and because people may ask, I consider myself a Lilly in some ways but not all! I don't have credit card debt, and I don't sabotage relationships - nor have I ever left my husband for art school. But I am on the shorter size and had red hair at one point lol).

After listening to Scheana’s latest podcast with Nema Vand, it’s clear that everything Raquel said about James just trying to fill his Raquel void with Ally was a projection. According to Scheana, Raquel was still crying over James and not wanting to do dating apps as early as April. Then her fling with Nema starts. Then she openly tells Nema she thinks Schwartz is hot and that she wants to pursue it on the show. He encourages her. Then we have the Oliver fiasco. And of course…Sandoval. I found it very telling that when Raquel told Nema about the Coachella hot tub/open relationship convo with Sandoval, she KNEW exactly what Sandoval was trying to do (i.e. laying the foundation to get in her pants).
Looking back at how much she talked about James this season, and how heavily she stressed how grateful she was to not be in a relationship with him anymore, it’s very clear that she was the one who wasn’t over him and was trying to fill that void with the roster of guys she was lining up. You don’t try to get multiple people to sign waivers and lie about a video of your ex if you’re over them. From the very first episode of the season when she tells James, “I’m not okay,” to the final reunion where she says it was the comment from James about Ally being an upgrade that really “got her,” it seems pretty damn clear that Raquel never got over him.

I (30M) am recently trying dating online and IRL. And to be honest it has been somewhat frustrating for multiple reasons.
I am 6 ft tall, I am somewhat handsome, I have a good paying job. I have a car and knowledge of all the good places in my city. I also know how to use the bus. I am about to buy a house. I would like to get married and have kids. I am ambivert. Mostly related to the geek side of things. I have ease of speech and have spoken several times in events and reunions so I am pretty confident. I dress as cleanly as possible and my personal hygiene is good.
I got impeccable reputation from work and other places, people keep constantly saying I'm a good man in most places.
I'm looking for something serious. As in a relationship that can end in marriage. (With several years of travel and fun things before of course, I clarify that I am not a completely trad guy but I stick to that role as much as I can, I am flexibl).
Here's my experience in those two settings:
1: OLD
Basically I am that wierd guy that ACTUALLY gets matches from girls (tinder, bumble) (more than 10 per month or so) but those matches basically mean nothing. Generally I get a good conversation out of most girls but when I ask them out to actually talk they start ghosting me. It's just a plain waste of time most cases.
The only times I've actually went out with two out of all my matches the girls were really boring.... They didn't wanna share a lot of details about them and were basically the stereotype of girl who only wanted a free meal. Super bad.
2: Physical places
I attend mostly cosplay events geek stuff of all kinds. Almost every girl I hang around has a boyfriend (objectively speaking because I am NOT looking for someone who's indecisive of it's partner and doesn't want to end the relationship before getting into another) so they are strictly in all sense of the word FRIENDS or ACQUAINTANCES (multiple cases). Getting that out of the way there were a few girls that are single that I've invited to hang out and chat...
Another place I've tried to look for is in the (most recent) workplace, and here LITERALLY all girls have a boyfriend with relationships that have lasted up to 6 years, some 3 years some around that number (which I don't particularly would like... If I'm lasting that long I'd be commiting btw).
And I do shooting sports in my country which is really hard compared to doing in it in a country like the USA but usually old men hang in there. No girls at all.
I also go to the gym but I have the same problem as in the workplace. Everyone is taken. Actually the 100% of girls.
My two most recent cases were:
1.- I talked a lot with this girl at the cosplay events and at a friend's house. She said that she would love to hang out and find out more about me. So I invited her over (for 3 weeks, messaged her once a week telling her if she wanted to hang out to different places) and she always had an excuse.
(Those being: I have a cold, I am attending to a church event, my aunt's birthday)
I didn't quite believed it but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. After those 3 times I stopped asking her and told her to call me when she had time.
2.- Another girl I met at my previous workplace. We've been messaging quite a while but she seems too, to always puts up an excuse similarity to the other girl (again, my policy is that usually I stop asking after 3 times tops) This girl has put up an excuse two times already saying "I'll come if I end up this other business first" that business being another thing she had with her friends.
The thing is that they seem to have interest but when they're home they lose it (what I'm perceiving is mostly lazyness and a lack of interest).
Is there anyway I can change this streak of luck? I really hate talking to a girl, saying I want to get to know her more (literally opening my feelings which feels shameful and makes me feel vulnerable every time) and then getting excuses for the reasons they can't or being downright ghosted.
What am I doing wrong? What can I change?

• Nema talks about collaborating with Duracell and working with Ariana on the latest promo and the likelihood of more cross-promos between big brands and reality TV
  
  • While directing Ariana, he ran into Tom Sandoval in the house. Had a quick chat with him. Says he was a good sport about the promo.
• In April - May of last year, he had a "1 month hang" with Rachel.
  
  • Nema had moved to NYC at that point.
  • When Nema and Rachel are on a date in NYC, they bump into Schwartz and Rachel keeps saying to Nema that Schwartz is hot. Nema not into her. Nema encourages Rachel to pursue her feelings with Schwartz.
  • Rachel told Nema about the Coachella story (Tom told Rachel in the hot tub that he and Ariana were in an open relationship) - Nema is the source that Scheana mentions in the reunion.
  • Nema was trying to figure out if he could attend Scheana's wedding. Rachel told him he could stay with her in his room. He ended up not going partly because he didn't want to be part of a Rachel - Schwartz - Nema storyline.

It no longer surprises me when a good band gets back together, if the fans are still there it’s a great way to have fun and make some cash. The thing I’m curious about is whether they conceived this as a one-off, like The Police reunion, or if they’re touring as long as there’s demand for it, ala Ween, or if they’re fully back and writing and recording and planning to be a band indefinitely. The 2024 date seems to indicate this isn’t a one-off. Any insights? Have they said anything?

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So here’s why Raquel is the mastermind behind everything. We know she’s a fan of the show and then seeks out James and starts dating him to get on the show. She didn’t care about James constantly cheating on her because she never liked James and just wanted an in on the show. But this all kind of backfired because she was never really a star of the show like Brittany was so she makes sure to integrate herself with the rest of the group (become bffs w scheana and Ariana). She was never gonna marry James so she had to end it and does it in the most dramatic way possible right before the reunion. This makes her the star of the reunion and guarantees her spot on the show. She’s always hated lala because lala was never buying her bullshit act. She also never gave 2 shits about scheana and Ariana she just needed a reason to be on the show. She watched the show so she knows what went down w the whole Tom Ariana and Kristen thing. Tom and ariana were able to be bffs on the show and he spent season 2 making Kristen look crazy (and she definitely didn’t help herself). Now in season 3 Ariana gets on the show and everyone totally accepts this relationship. She becomes a star of the show and the main couple of VPR. Raquel and Tom had a plan to do the same thing where they bond next season over getting out of these long term abusive relationships and start dating and make Ariana and James look like horrible crazy people. If they weren’t caught this totally would’ve worked. Everyone would’ve been like yay Raquel she found her voice and found someone who makes her feel “seen.” She doesn’t show any empathy towards ariana and scheana because they never were true friends in her eyes just a means to an end. And I don’t think she even really liked Sandoval she just saw this as a way to secure her spot as the star of VPR. That’s why she’s able to give that interview at the end and betray him. Now she needs to pivot and make it look like Tom was manipulating her and she had to keep up all his lies.

***RECAP is continued in the comments
Beginning chit chat - Talked about the air in New York due to the Canada fires - Jax is a big fan of the toast podcast - Jax said he has never been wrong on the show - Jax said he really needed a break from the show but they are thinking about getting it back into reality tv - Jax said people do want them back and he is surprised. Jax said, “the amount of people and the networks and everybody contacting us, are you ready to come back, do you want to come back, where do you guys stand…”
When they left VPR, were they fired or did they leave - Jax said it was a mutual decision but they were not fired - Jax said if they were fired, they wouldn’t have been on WWHL or talking to bravo right now, and he wouldn’t have been in New York for bravo right now when this podcast was being recorded
In terms of the VPR group, who are Jax and Brittany still cool and uncool with? - Jax hung out with Ariana’s new boyfriend last night. Jax said he hopes that they are official boyfriend/girlfriend. Jax said he was really really nice - They hang out still with Lala, Kristen, Scheana, and Schwartz - He has always talked to Tom Schwartz and nothing has changed with him - The last time Jax saw Sandoval was at the Labor Day party - Jax said he was talking to Sandoval when he got the text from Ariana saying that her grandma passed away and he was like, “oh man I got to get out of here and I can’t find a Uber.” But Jax said there were Ubers everywhere - Jax loves James now and they talk all the time
When Scandoval broke - Jax said he has called it for years as far as Sandoval cheating. He was a little shocked by it being with Raquel, well not shocked but he thought it was with a couple of other people - He still believes Sandoval cheated with other people - Janet’s husband Jason text jax that you were right all along so that’s when he found out about Scandoval - Jax had seen reunion part 3 before the audience did so he said, “And by the way, the little surprise that you’re going to get on the show, I called that too.”
Sandoval - Jax said Sandoval always has to add “but” to everything that he says - Jax said when it comes to Sandoval cheating, the way that Sandoval is going about it is the scary part. The lack of empathy, selfishness, and the tone deafness, and him going on tour and changing lyrics to his songs about his phone falling out, he is making fun of the situation - Jax said it was so weird that Sandoval paid a position for James and Raquel’s engagement and he still can’t figure that out - The host of the podcast said, “Do you think like they were literally into each other at that point? Like he wanted to make it special for her.” - (OP here, buckle up because this part doesn’t make sense but here is what Jax said after she asked that) Jax said, “Well yeah, I mean, I can say it now, yeah they were. It came out yesterday. So yeah. They were at it at Mexico. And I’m surprised out of all the people he lied to, I’m surprised he lied to Schwartz here.” (OP here again, the reason why this confused me is because Jax made it seem like it came out that Sandoval and Raquel were into each other during James and Raquel’s engagement…at least that’s how I took his answer with the question that the host asked…lol. It’s around the 11 minute mark for those curious) - Jax said Sandoval is in a lot of trouble financially - Jax said that everything that Sandoval has yelled at him about, he has done (he gave the example of Sandoval telling Jax he should have left the apartment when he cheated on Brittany and now Sandoval is refusing to leave the house) - Sandoval has never met Cruz
Tom Sandoval and the most extras - Jax talked about the text that Sandoval sent Brittany saying if they or family or friends wanted to come to his show in Kentucky, he could get them on the list - Jax looked at Brittany’s phone, got on his phone, and text Sandoval and said don’t you ever fucking text my wife again. How dare you. How selfish and tone deaf are you. You do realize that Brittany is friends with these girls. - Jax said that Sandoval can’t sing but Sandoval has always wanted to be a rock star
Ariana - Jax said Ariana is thriving and seems like a different person. It’s like she had this weight lifted off her shoulders - Jax never understood why Ariana was so negative but now he knows that it was due to Sandoval - Jax is close with Ariana’s brother Jeremy and Jax told him that your sister is just so awesome now and Jeremy was like I know she got rid of that dead beat
Are Raquel and Sandoval still dating - Jax said he asked Schwartz when he was on the podcast if Raquel and Sandoval were still dating and Schwartz said I don’t think so (well actually we heard Schwartz say on the podcast that he is happy to say that he doesn’t know if they are together or not)
Filming - Jax doesn’t know how filming is going to work because no one wants to film with Raquel and Sandoval - They only person he could see filming with Sandoval is Schwartz because they have a business together - Jax said, “I was asked if I would film with him and I was like I couldn’t do that.”
Schwartz and Sandy’s - Jax said with that he asked Schwartz yesterday and the bar has ups and downs - The last time Jax was there, he said it wasn’t so busy but he said it was an off night like a 10 pm on a Thursday - Jax said he heard a rumor that they are trying to buy Sandoval out. The managers, owners, and employees do not like Sandoval and do not want to work for Sandoval. They are all only there because of Schwartz and Schwartz is like please please and trying to make this work - Jax said, “In fact they offered me, if I was interested in taking over. Could you imagine.” - Jax doesn’t think you should ever use peoples names in bars - At the time with the Tom Tom thing, Jax did feel a little bit at that time what am I chop liver. He said he has worked for Lisa and managed her bar. - Jax said with Lisa, she was the only one that would come to Jax when she was having issues with housewives and asked how he dealt with this - Jax said Lisa would breakdown to him and ask how do you get through this, the woman are being like this - Now looking back, owning a bar is one of the hardest things you can do - He said how funny would it be if him and James opened up a place
***RECAP is continued in the comments

Shiets gonna get real soon enough~
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Memory Transcription Subject: Slanek, Venlil Civilian
Date [Standardized Human Time]: November 13, 2136
Nulia I swear…
I love this Gojid with all my heart, but she would not let me go. He has been holding only tightly to me like a backpack, her tail wagging the whole time as we walked through the capital towards the new headquarters. She was constantly asking me “Are we there yet?!”, all excitedly… It made sense, Marcel was much more like a father figure to Nulia, and she seemed really quick to adopt him as a father the same way he adopted her as his daughter…
“She’s really impatient…”
I look over to hear Onso. The Yotul accepted my invitation to join us to see if we could see Marcel. He seemed ecstatic at the idea of meeting a human face to face over the phone, and that excitement wasn’t gone in the slightest.
“Oh, don’t act as if you’re any different~!”
We both shared a laugh as the headquarters came into view. It had drones flying about building up parts of the building under construction. The headquarters itself was a tall building with a strange tower at the top. Half the block consisted of the main building and the parking lot, while the other half of the block seemed to have a walled building… perhaps a prison block for inmates? It was all up to interpretation. The building itself seemed to have a navy-blue painted symbol along the front. It exuded a sort of importance, one that was found in many other government buildings.
There was a sign out front, “Help wanted, No exterminators beyond this point.”
Let’s see Marcel…
Onso spoke up, “So, you’re looking to get a job as one of those new ‘Police officers?”
I turned to face him, “Yeah! I had some experience as a UN peacekeeper for a while, so I know the general idea of what to expect. You might be welcome to work here too, if you're looking for work that is…”
He seemed to ponder my words for a moment, “I guess I could… maybe they have some machines they could use as an engineer for?”
“You’re an engineer?” I asked as we began to walk to the entrance. “I’m impressed. Those kinds of people are talented in many ways.”
“Daww thank you~”
We both laughed as we entered the main lobby of the building, while the upper floors were still under construction, the lobby was perfectly maintained and completed… There was a human working the front desk. We both approach her and give a gentle wave. “Hello miss, I was wondering if the overseer was available?”
She looked at me with suspicion, “Any reason why?”
“I was his partner during the exchange program. You can tell him a Venlil named Slanek is here.”
Her eyes widened, “I see… one second please.” She went about typing away at the computer as Onso went to sit down in the lobby chairs. I gave Nulia one of the little play magazines… she couldn’t read all of it just yet, but soon enough she’d grow to be the smartest Gojid I’d know.
Later, we heard some footsteps down the hallway approaching the lobby. When the figure revealed himself, his red plumage and scarred face turned to face us. A smile appeared on his face and the sparkle in his eyes became ever more apparent.
“Oh my God! It is you!”
Marcel spoke with excitement as he walked over to us… I stood up with Nulia in my arms as Marcel pulled us into a comforting hug. “When I received the message, I had a Venlil named Slanek waiting for me in my office, I thought it was too good to be true! But here you are and with little Nulia too!”
“Nuh uh! I’m a big kid now!”
Marcel and I laughed at Nulia, she was always such a joy to have around…
“Sooo… not to ruin the reunion… but I’m Onso.”
Marcel looked over to the Yotul with a warm and inviting smile, “It’s a pleasure Onso!” Marcel shook the Yotul's paw. “It’s great to see you and Nulia again Slanek! How have things been?”
I sighed, “Hectic, what with all the recent events and the massive shift in society we’ve had within such a short time. But it's all good! Nulia passed an entrance exam to get accepted into a good school!”
Marcel smiled widely at the fact, “That’s my little genius! I’m so proud!” Marcel went about booping Nulia on the nose, which made her giggle all cutely.
Onso piped up again, “Slanek and I are still looking for work… He made the suggestion of coming to work for you!”
Marcel’s smile beamed even more, “Is that true?! Wonderful! Come with me to my office! I have free time until my next interview and I think I should be able to squeeze you two in~!”
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The process was just like any other Interview for any other job, long and tiring. But it was worth it for the chance to work with Marcel again. Nulia was watching kid shows on the couch with my holopad as Onso and I went through the interview.
After a bit Marcel leaned forward resting his chin on his hands. “Given that you two seem to both have the necessary skills and experience for both the positions you want… You got the job! Come back here in two days for the orientation video!” Onso and I celebrated at the News and gave each other a high five. Marcel simply laughed at the scene before him.
Just then, we heard a voice, it was faint, but considering how high up we were it was clearly loud. The three of us look out a window and down into the parking lot to see a riot at the gate… They were all holding signs that were…
Anti-human and pro-exterminator…
…
I almost feel sorry for them…
Almost…
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:: Human policy is to dismantle and replace anything exterminator... anyone that opposes this or fights against it is to be arrested as per human decree. Exterminators are to be investigated and those that express signs of deranged psychosis are to either be arrested or killed. ::
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Ep. 1 Friends, Crushes, and Pranks - Oh My!
Ep. 2 A Little Harvestfest Magic
Ep. 3 Final Exams and Prepping for Prom
Ep. 4 Household Happenings
Ep. 5 A Prom-ing We Will Go
Ep. 6 Fear and Failure
Ep. 7 Dating and Discovery
Ep. 8 A Beachy Winterfest
Ep. 9 Pranks and Pain
Ep. 10 A Visit From the Reaper
Ep. 11 Prom - New Years Edition
Ep. 12 Running Away From the Problem
Ep. 13 Expelled
Ep. 14 Inappropriate Entry
Ep. 15 Magical Days
Ep. 16 Telling Veronica
Ep. 17 No Remorse
Ep. 18 No Rest For The Weary
Ep. 19 Family Reunion
Ep. 20 Prom Promises
Ep. 21 The Roommate
Ep. 22 An Awesome Odd Job
Ep. 23 Jasper's Eventful Day
Ep. 24 A Teen No More
Ep. 25 Burgliate For the Win
Ep. 26 New Horizons and Heartbreak
Ep. 27 The Motive Trials
Ep. 28 A Change of Plans
Ep. 29 Hijinks for Two
Ep. 30 Oh Baby... A Protection Malfunction
Ep. 31 The Morning After
Ep. 32 Preparing For The Future
Ep. 33 Complicating Circumstances
Ep. 34 What's One More?
Ep. 35 Telling the Family
Ep. 36 Finishing Touches
Ep. 37 Birth Plan Chaos: Welcome Pink Gen
Ep. 38 Seeing Family and Friends at Harvestfest
Ep. 39 Making the Doctor Work Overtime
Ep. 40 The Little Things
Ep. 41 City Living
Ep. 42 Winterfest Revelry: Part 1
Ep. 43 Winterfest Revenge: Part 2
Ep. 44 Winterfest Revelations: Part 3
Ep. 45 Homebodies for the Holidays
Ep. 46 The Downs and Ups of Villainy
Ep. 47 Laughter - The Worst Medicine
Ep. 48 She Ain't Done With Them Yet
Ep. 49 Together Again
Ep. 50 Unhappy New Year
Ep. 51 Sims About Town
Ep. 52 Humor and Hijinks
Ep. 53 An Adventure in the Country
Ep. 54 A Recovery From the Country
Ep. 55 Not So Neighborly
Ep. 56 Days at Home
Ep. 57 Therapeutic Thrashings
Ep. 58 Entertaining Afternoon
Ep. 59 Forever, Again
Ep. 60 Don the Lothario
Ep. 61 Gathering The Party
Ep. 62 Adventures With Hammy
Ep. 63 Apartment Adventures
Ep. 64 Family, Reunited
Ep. 65 A Birthday Decision
Ep. 66 Prodigal Jasper
Ep. 67 Taking A Sick Day
Ep. 68 Retying The Knot
Ep. 69 3 Birthdays and a Wedding Reception
Ep. 70 Neighborhood Brawl Crawl
Ep. 71 Neighborhood Brawl Crawl, Continued
Ep. 72 Crawling Home
Ep. 73 Intro To Magic 101
Ep. 74 The First Day of School
Ep. 75 Spencer's Struggle
Ep. 76 Death and Loss
Ep. 77 Gains From Death
Ep. 78 Lending A Hand
Ep. 79 Here and There
Ep. 80 Emotional Support Animals
Ep. 81 Will You Accompany Me?
Ep. 82 Dating Disasters
Ep. 83 Persistence Pays Off
Ep. 84 Harvestfest Fun in the Sun
Ep. 85 Meeting the Parent
Ep. 86 At Prom At Last
Ep. 87 The After Party
Ep. 88 Sharing in the Happiness of Others
Ep. 89 To Market We Will Go
Ep. 90 Life's Little Joys
Ep. 91 Could This Be Love?
Ep. 92 A Winterfest Romance
Ep. 93 A Winterfest Wedding
Ep. 94 Future Thinking
Ep. 95 Not Striking Out
Ep. 96 Oh My Nose!
Ep. 97 Broken but not Beaten
Ep. 98 A Magical Promposal
Ep. 99 Oh My Heart!
Ep. 100 Shouldn't It Be Easy?
Ep. 101 Sunny New Year's Eve Fun
Ep. 102 Prom the Second
Ep. 103 The Hard Conversation
Ep. 104 An Unexpected Crush
Ep. 105 Diet and Exercise
Ep. 106 New Friends From Distant Lands
Ep. 107 Some Auntie Uncle Time
Ep. 108 Hot and Cold
Ep. 109 Bro Bar Bash
Ep. 110 Sneaking Up On Love
Ep. 111 Some Grandfatherly Romantic Advice
Ep. 112 Playing The Field
Ep. 113 Love Is In The Air
Ep. 114 Spring on the Farm
Ep. 115 An Artsy Fartsy Birthday
Ep. 116 Wedding Season
Ep. 117 Birthdays Abound
Ep. 118 Graduation
Ep. 119 An Arranged Marriage
Ep. 120 Friendly Support
Ep. 121 Working Like Dogs
Ep. 122 Tartosa Here We Come
Ep. 123 Ed's Choice
Ep. 124 Vacation Romance
Ep. 125 Jasper Fabulous
Ep. 126 Ed's Bach Party
Ep. 127 A Fond Farewell
Ep. 128 A Time and Place For Romance
Ep. 129 Reactions to Romance
Ep. 130 A Not So Happy Union
Ep. 131 A Fabulous First Gig
Ep. 132 A Pool Deck Renovation
Ep. 133 Blowing the Whistle
Ep. 134 Hijinks to Make You Smile
Ep. 135 Life Things
Ep. 136 A Meditation Mishap
Ep. 137 Dinner With Ed
Ep. 138 Transitions and Hard Conversations
Ep. 139 Dreams Come True
Ep. 140 On the Subject of Immortality
Ep. 141 Saying I'm Sorry
Ep. 142 End of an Era: Orange Gen

Well, folks, I find myself in a bit of a pickle. You see, I've developed quite the crush on my co-resident, and in a moment of sheer bravery (or insanity), I spilled the beans and confessed my love to her. Now, here's the kicker: we've never been on a proper date, and our hangouts have been as rare as a unicorn sighting. Talk about going from zero to love bomb real quick!
The thing is, I've never received any clear signs that she reciprocates my romantic feelings. In fact, I think she might see me more as a lab partner than a potential soulmate. And let's face it, I'm no mind reader, but I have this sneaky suspicion that she might not feel the same way.
Now, here's where I need your sage advice, fellow residents. How on earth can I gracefully park myself in the friendzone without unleashing chaos in our residency? Or get her to fall in love with me? I'd rather not have the OR turn into a battleground of unrequited love.
So, dear colleagues, any brilliant ideas on how to lighten the mood, keep the peace, and maintain our professional harmony? I mean, who said medicine wasn't a breeding ground for sitcom-worthy love conundrums? Share your wisdom, and let's hope this ends up being one of those funny stories we laugh about at our reunion years from now! Or our wedding...

So I (25F) just moved here like 3 years ago. This is a 7 floors building, there are approximately 20 apartments I believe and all of the neighbors are like really close to each other and know each other for decades and most of them are older than 40 fsr and had always lived here. I first move in with my former fiancé (27M), he is an extrovert and introduced himself to the other neighbors that same day. He is a physician assistant student and he immediately made some friends like a doctor from the 3rd floor and some nurse. When we first moved in I was going through a very bad depression episode. I was diagnosed with depression at 12, I used to handle it but at 21 I went to a traumatic experience (that actually lead me to move here from an apartment that I used to love) so when I was settling in I wasn't in the mood of meeting new neighbors or small talk so I never actually got to know them, but my ex fiancé did. I work from home so I dont usually hang around the building cause I almost never leave my apartment because of my social anxiety and my allergies to the weather of my country most of the year. My ex fiancé on the other hand was always coming and going so he met a lot of the neighbors when going to work or running errands.
So last year I was actually starting to feel kinda better and I began to leave my apartment more often to meet old friends etc. But my relationship with my fiancé was not going too well. We still loved and cared about each other but we weren't working as a couple, it got kinda platonic. We decided to end our relationship and to stop the wedding plans but we continued living together with no drama until he found a nice place to move. He decided that he would be the one who moves because the apartment was too far away from his work anyway and he didn't want me to stress out with another moving after all I went through. There was no rush from me, I wanted him to find his perfect place so he moved temporarily to the guest room and we were living peacefully almost as roommates while he kept looking for apartments. In my opinion we were even happier that way than as a couple. My mental health was improving. I started a new job, mostly from home but hybrid so I had some meetings and it involved some events I had to attend. I was going out the apartment more often and I started to run errands and go to the store almost as a normal person. I was doing my best effort. When I had to share the elevator with another neighbor they used to get really surprised by my presence. They all used to ask if I was visiting or if I was new in the building. I found rather odd the interrogations all the time but I just used to reply that I live in the 7th and that Ive been living here for 2 years now. They were at first usually shocked and then they were like oh yeah you're the physician's fiance. I never got the guts to correct them by saying I was his ex, mostly because he was still around and it just makes no sense so I would wait until he move out to do so.
But 6 months passed and my ex was no where near to move out. It was ok to me to stay as roommates and I didn't felt like it was a big deal that the neighbors believe that we were still a couple. He never corrected them either when they asked him stuff like when was gonna be the wedding. But at that time Ive just met someone at an event from work that I was really into (24M). He asked me out and we went to a few dates that were amazing. There was an awesome connection and we started dating.
We usually hang up at his place because my apartment is kinda far anyway and also I didn't knew how to tell him the situation with my ex/roommate. After 2 months dating I already knew I wanted a relationship with him, I was happier than ever I never had felt that way before, we were both so truly in love so I told him everything and he was totally fine with that and he understood that it was not uncommon for exs to live together for a while until one of them find somewhere to go. He didn't knew that almost 9 months had passed tho.
On the other hand when I told my ex about my new bf that was coming to visit he lost it. I didn't expect him to freak out that way because he used to tell me about his crushes and his dates in that time we were living only as roommates and it was fine I already saw him like a friend amd even gave him advices with girls but he got real mad when I mention the word bf and that he was visiting anytime soon. He said how can you this to me and that he thought I was just sleeping around but he didn't expected something like that.
I immediately realized that maybe he still had some feelings for me so I tried to be as kind as possible and he started to look more seriously for places to move. My bf only came to visit whenever my ex was working all night at the hospital so we don't disturbed him and I was really careful they never crossed knowing how my ex feeling about him. The situation was really awkward and my new bf one day told me that he had very weird encounters at the halls of the buildings with neighbors asking who was him and who was he visiting. At that time I'm pretty sure that most of the neighbors thought that I was having an affair. They never liked me anyway because I was quiet because of my mental issues and they might have take the wrong impression but I was just unable to small talk. They adored my ex fiance tho so they kinda hate me now. He found a place to live and he moved out right away.
4 months had passed from that, my bf and I are so happy together and he started to work from home too so he is spending a lot of time in my place because some issues with his roommate. We aren't talking about living together yet but he comes at least 5 days at week. My sister came one weekend to visit for the first time and she heard some neighbors chatting on the elevator about me without knowing who she was. They were saying that I was cheating my fiance with a some much uglier guy that I used to have over anytime my fiance had a shift at the hospital and that he one day found out and left me. It was really disturbing to know that but I didn't wanted to get involved and I didn't really care about their opinions of me. It was awful the looks I got from them but I didn't went out too often anyway. The president of the neighbors, the doctor from the 3rd that was friends with my ex, called me on Sunday to complain about my sister's car staying to long on the garage and they didn't recognize the car and it wasn't allowed to have visitor's cars on our garage. It was actually on my spot because I don't own a car and there was literally nothing wrong with that. So I avoid confrontation and told her ok and hang up but actually I was not going to make my sister move her car at night it was ridiculous and she was leaving early in the morning anyway. But I didn't had the courage to reply her what I actually thought because of my social anxiety. So when the doctor left in the morning the car was still there because my sister decided to stay until 10am to avoid traffic and I told her it was fine because she has every right to have her car on my spot and it doesn't bother anyone that her car is there but the neighbor just hates me and wants to give me a bad time for no reason. I didn't expect the rest of the neighbors to support her but they convocated a meeting of neighbors only to accuse me for what I did. It was everyone against me at the meeting. It was terrifying for me and my mental health, like a public amonestation at the lobby of the building where everyone got together to complain about me. I tried to defend myself without crying about that there's no rule against the visitor's car on the owner spot. But they said they didn't care, it was just disrespectful to tell the president on the phone that I was moving the car and then just don't move it. I can't stress enough that all of the neighbors are older than 40, at least the ones that were at that meeting. They started to complain that I was also rude, that I never talked to anyone not got the time to know them or to participate on the building's reunions and parties and that I had a guest over visiting too often, probably a bf, that doesn't pay rent and that they need to know his name and last name because I have to inform to the building if I'm having a new partner or roommate. Everything was surreal and I just left the meeting without saying a word. I couldn't stand it anymore. I locked in my apartment and I am trying to understand that they must hate me because of a misunderstood about me cheating my fiance but I actually felt so angry because even if that was true they had no right to do something like that. They are always rude to my new boyfriend and I have to keep living here for at least 2 years and I don't know how to do so with all this bad energy and I am scared and I haven't left my apartment today and I don't know what to do and I just can't stop crying and having no appetite and feeling like another depression episode might be coming back.

So I (25F) just moved here like 3 years ago. This is a 7 floors building, there are approximately 20 apartments I believe and all of the neighbors are like really close to each other and know each other for decades and most of them are older than 40 fsr and had always lived here. I first move in with my former fiancé (27M), he is an extrovert and introduced himself to the other neighbors that same day. He is a physician assistant student and he immediately made some friends like a doctor from the 3rd floor and some nurse. When we first moved in I was going through a very bad depression episode. I was diagnosed with depression at 12, I used to handle it but at 21 I went to a traumatic experience (that actually lead me to move here from an apartment that I used to love) so when I was settling in I wasn't in the mood of meeting new neighbors or small talk so I never actually got to know them, but my ex fiancé did. I work from home so I dont usually hang around the building cause I almost never leave my apartment because of my social anxiety and my allergies to the weather of my country most of the year. My ex fiancé on the other hand was always coming and going so he met a lot of the neighbors when going to work or running errands.
So last year I was actually starting to feel kinda better and I began to leave my apartment more often to meet old friends etc. But my relationship with my fiancé was not going too well. We still loved and cared about each other but we weren't working as a couple, it got kinda platonic. We decided to end our relationship and to stop the wedding plans but we continued living together with no drama until he found a nice place to move. He decided that he would be the one who moves because the apartment was too far away from his work anyway and he didn't want me to stress out with another moving after all I went through. There was no rush from me, I wanted him to find his perfect place so he moved temporarily to the guest room and we were living peacefully almost as roommates while he kept looking for apartments. In my opinion we were even happier that way than as a couple. My mental health was improving. I started a new job, mostly from home but hybrid so I had some meetings and it involved some events I had to attend. I was going out the apartment more often and I started to run errands and go to the store almost as a normal person. I was doing my best effort. When I had to share the elevator with another neighbor they used to get really surprised by my presence. They all used to ask if I was visiting or if I was new in the building. I found rather odd the interrogations all the time but I just used to reply that I live in the 7th and that Ive been living here for 2 years now. They were at first usually shocked and then they were like oh yeah you're the physician's fiance. I never got the guts to correct them by saying I was his ex, mostly because he was still around and it just makes no sense so I would wait until he move out to do so.
But 6 months passed and my ex was no where near to move out. It was ok to me to stay as roommates and I didn't felt like it was a big deal that the neighbors believe that we were still a couple. He never corrected them either when they asked him stuff like when was gonna be the wedding. But at that time Ive just met someone at an event from work that I was really into (24M). He asked me out and we went to a few dates that were amazing. There was an awesome connection and we started dating.
We usually hang up at his place because my apartment is kinda far anyway and also I didn't knew how to tell him the situation with my ex/roommate. After 2 months dating I already knew I wanted a relationship with him, I was happier than ever I never had felt that way before, we were both so truly in love so I told him everything and he was totally fine with that and he understood that it was not uncommon for exs to live together for a while until one of them find somewhere to go. He didn't knew that almost 9 months had passed tho.
On the other hand when I told my ex about my new bf that was coming to visit he lost it. I didn't expect him to freak out that way because he used to tell me about his crushes and his dates in that time we were living only as roommates and it was fine I already saw him like a friend amd even gave him advices with girls but he got real mad when I mention the word bf and that he was visiting anytime soon. He said how can you this to me and that he thought I was just sleeping around but he didn't expected something like that.
I immediately realized that maybe he still had some feelings for me so I tried to be as kind as possible and he started to look more seriously for places to move. My bf only came to visit whenever my ex was working all night at the hospital so we don't disturbed him and I was really careful they never crossed knowing how my ex feeling about him. The situation was really awkward and my new bf one day told me that he had very weird encounters at the halls of the buildings with neighbors asking who was him and who was he visiting. At that time I'm pretty sure that most of the neighbors thought that I was having an affair. They never liked me anyway because I was quiet because of my mental issues and they might have take the wrong impression but I was just unable to small talk. They adored my ex fiance tho so they kinda hate me now. He found a place to live and he moved out right away.
4 months had passed from that, my bf and I are so happy together and he started to work from home too so he is spending a lot of time in my place because some issues with his roommate. We aren't talking about living together yet but he comes at least 5 days at week. My sister came one weekend to visit for the first time and she heard some neighbors chatting on the elevator about me without knowing who she was. They were saying that I was cheating my fiance with a some much uglier guy that I used to have over anytime my fiance had a shift at the hospital and that he one day found out and left me. It was really disturbing to know that but I didn't wanted to get involved and I didn't really care about their opinions of me. It was awful the looks I got from them but I didn't went out too often anyway. The president of the neighbors, the doctor from the 3rd that was friends with my ex, called me on Sunday to complain about my sister's car staying to long on the garage and they didn't recognize the car and it wasn't allowed to have visitor's cars on our garage. It was actually on my spot because I don't own a car and there was literally nothing wrong with that. So I avoid confrontation and told her ok and hang up but actually I was not going to make my sister move her car at night it was ridiculous and she was leaving early in the morning anyway. But I didn't had the courage to reply her what I actually thought because of my social anxiety. So when the doctor left in the morning the car was still there because my sister decided to stay until 10am to avoid traffic and I told her it was fine because she has every right to have her car on my spot and it doesn't bother anyone that her car is there but the neighbor just hates me and wants to give me a bad time for no reason.
I didn't expect the rest of the neighbors to support her but they convocated a meeting of neighbors only to accuse me for what I did. It was everyone against me at the meeting. It was terrifying for me and my mental health, like a public amonestation at the lobby of the building where everyone got together to complain about me. I tried to defend myself without crying about that there's no rule against the visitor's car on the owner spot. But they said they didn't care, it was just disrespectful to tell the president on the phone that I was moving the car and then just don't move it. I can't stress enough that all of the neighbors are older than 40, at least the ones that were at that meeting.
They started to complain that I was also rude, that I never talked to anyone not got the time to know them or to participate on the building's reunions and parties. Like I HAD TO. And that I had a guest over visiting too often, probably a bf, that doesn't pay rent and that they need to know his name and last name because I have to inform to the building if I'm having a new partner or roommate.
Everything was surreal and I just left the meeting without saying a word. I couldn't stand it anymore. I locked in my apartment and I am trying to understand that they must hate me because of a misunderstood about me cheating my fiance but I actually felt so angry because even if that was true they had no right to do something like that. They are always rude to my new boyfriend and I have to keep living here for at least 2 years and I don't know how to do so with all this bad energy and I am scared and I haven't left my apartment today and I don't know what to do and I just can't stop crying and having no appetite and feeling like another depression episode might be coming back.

So I (25F) just moved here like 3 years ago. This is a 7 floors building, there are approximately 20 apartments I believe and all of the neighbors are like really close to each other and know each other for decades and most of them are older than 40 fsr and had always lived here. I first move in with my former fiancé (27M), he is an extrovert and introduced himself to the other neighbors that same day. He is a physician assistant student and he immediately made some friends like a doctor from the 3rd floor and some nurse. When we first moved in I was going through a very bad depression episode. I was diagnosed with depression at 12, I used to handle it but at 21 I went to a traumatic experience (that actually lead me to move here from an apartment that I used to love) so when I was settling in I wasn't in the mood of meeting new neighbors or small talk so I never actually got to know them, but my ex fiancé did. I work from home so I dont usually hang around the building cause I almost never leave my apartment because of my social anxiety and my allergies to the weather of my country most of the year. My ex fiancé on the other hand was always coming and going so he met a lot of the neighbors when going to work or running errands.
So last year I was actually starting to feel kinda better and I began to leave my apartment more often to meet old friends etc. But my relationship with my fiancé was not going too well. We still loved and cared about each other but we weren't working as a couple, it got kinda platonic. We decided to end our relationship and to stop the wedding plans but we continued living together with no drama until he found a nice place to move. He decided that he would be the one who moves because the apartment was too far away from his work anyway and he didn't want me to stress out with another moving after all I went through. There was no rush from me, I wanted him to find his perfect place so he moved temporarily to the guest room and we were living peacefully almost as roommates while he kept looking for apartments. In my opinion we were even happier that way than as a couple. My mental health was improving. I started a new job, mostly from home but hybrid so I had some meetings and it involved some events I had to attend. I was going out the apartment more often and I started to run errands and go to the store almost as a normal person. I was doing my best effort. When I had to share the elevator with another neighbor they used to get really surprised by my presence. They all used to ask if I was visiting or if I was new in the building. I found rather odd the interrogations all the time but I just used to reply that I live in the 7th and that Ive been living here for 2 years now. They were at first usually shocked and then they were like oh yeah you're the physician's fiance. I never got the guts to correct them by saying I was his ex, mostly because he was still around and it just makes no sense so I would wait until he move out to do so.
But 6 months passed and my ex was no where near to move out. It was ok to me to stay as roommates and I didn't felt like it was a big deal that the neighbors believe that we were still a couple. He never corrected them either when they asked him stuff like when was gonna be the wedding. But at that time Ive just met someone at an event from work that I was really into (24M). He asked me out and we went to a few dates that were amazing. There was an awesome connection and we started dating.
We usually hang up at his place because my apartment is kinda far anyway and also I didn't knew how to tell him the situation with my ex/roommate. After 2 months dating I already knew I wanted a relationship with him, I was happier than ever I never had felt that way before, we were both so truly in love so I told him everything and he was totally fine with that and he understood that it was not uncommon for exs to live together for a while until one of them find somewhere to go. He didn't knew that almost 9 months had passed tho.
On the other hand when I told my ex about my new bf that was coming to visit he lost it. I didn't expect him to freak out that way because he used to tell me about his crushes and his dates in that time we were living only as roommates and it was fine I already saw him like a friend amd even gave him advices with girls but he got real mad when I mention the word bf and that he was visiting anytime soon. He said how can you this to me and that he thought I was just sleeping around but he didn't expected something like that.
I immediately realized that maybe he still had some feelings for me so I tried to be as kind as possible and he started to look more seriously for places to move. My bf only came to visit whenever my ex was working all night at the hospital so we don't disturbed him and I was really careful they never crossed knowing how my ex feeling about him. The situation was really awkward and my new bf one day told me that he had very weird encounters at the halls of the buildings with neighbors asking who was him and who was he visiting. At that time I'm pretty sure that most of the neighbors thought that I was having an affair. They never liked me anyway because I was quiet because of my mental issues and they might have take the wrong impression but I was just unable to small talk. They adored my ex fiance tho so they kinda hate me now. He found a place to live and he moved out right away.
4 months had passed from that, my bf and I are so happy together and he started to work from home too so he is spending a lot of time in my place because some issues with his roommate. We aren't talking about living together yet but he comes at least 5 days at week. My sister came one weekend to visit for the first time and she heard some neighbors chatting on the elevator about me without knowing who she was. They were saying that I was cheating my fiance with a some much uglier guy that I used to have over anytime my fiance had a shift at the hospital and that he one day found out and left me. It was really disturbing to know that but I didn't wanted to get involved and I didn't really care about their opinions of me. It was awful the looks I got from them but I didn't went out too often anyway. The president of the neighbors, the doctor from the 3rd that was friends with my ex, called me on Sunday to complain about my sister's car staying to long on the garage and they didn't recognize the car and it wasn't allowed to have visitor's cars on our garage. It was actually on my spot because I don't own a car and there was literally nothing wrong with that. So I avoid confrontation and told her ok and hang up but actually I was not going to make my sister move her car at night it was ridiculous and she was leaving early in the morning anyway. But I didn't had the courage to reply her what I actually thought because of my social anxiety. So when the doctor left in the morning the car was still there because my sister decided to stay until 10am to avoid traffic and I told her it was fine because she has every right to have her car on my spot and it doesn't bother anyone that her car is there but the neighbor just hates me and wants to give me a bad time for no reason. I didn't expect the rest of the neighbors to support her but they convocated a meeting of neighbors only to accuse me for what I did. It was everyone against me at the meeting. It was terrifying for me and my mental health, like a public amonestation at the lobby of the building where everyone got together to complain about me. I tried to defend myself without crying about that there's no rule against the visitor's car on the owner spot. But they said they didn't care, it was just disrespectful to tell the president on the phone that I was moving the car and then just don't move it. I can't stress enough that all of the neighbors are older than 40, at least the ones that were at that meeting. They started to complain that I was also rude, that I never talked to anyone not got the time to know them or to participate on the building's reunions and parties and that I had a guest over visiting too often, probably a bf, that doesn't pay rent and that they need to know his name and last name because I have to inform to the building if I'm having a new partner or roommate. Everything was surreal and I just left the meeting without saying a word. I couldn't stand it anymore. I locked in my apartment and I am trying to understand that they must hate me because of a misunderstood about me cheating my fiance but I actually felt so angry because even if that was true they had no right to do something like that. They are always rude to my new boyfriend and I have to keep living here for at least 2 years and I don't know how to do so with all this bad energy and I am scared and I haven't left my apartment today and I don't know what to do and I just can't stop crying and having no appetite and feeling like another depression episode might be coming back.

So I (25F) just moved here like 3 years ago. This is a 7 floors building, there are approximately 20 apartments I believe and all of the neighbors are like really close to each other and know each other for decades and most of them are older than 40 fsr and had always lived here. I first move in with my former fiancé (27M), he is an extrovert and introduced himself to the other neighbors that same day. He is a physician assistant student and he immediately made some friends like a doctor from the 3rd floor and some nurse. When we first moved in I was going through a very bad depression episode. I was diagnosed with depression at 12, I used to handle it but at 21 I went to a traumatic experience (that actually lead me to move here from an apartment that I used to love) so when I was settling in I wasn't in the mood of meeting new neighbors or small talk so I never actually got to know them, but my ex fiancé did. I work from home so I dont usually hang around the building cause I almost never leave my apartment because of my social anxiety and my allergies to the weather of my country most of the year. My ex fiancé on the other hand was always coming and going so he met a lot of the neighbors when going to work or running errands.
So last year I was actually starting to feel kinda better and I began to leave my apartment more often to meet old friends etc. But my relationship with my fiancé was not going too well. We still loved and cared about each other but we weren't working as a couple, it got kinda platonic. We decided to end our relationship and to stop the wedding plans but we continued living together with no drama until he found a nice place to move. He decided that he would be the one who moves because the apartment was too far away from his work anyway and he didn't want me to stress out with another moving after all I went through. There was no rush from me, I wanted him to find his perfect place so he moved temporarily to the guest room and we were living peacefully almost as roommates while he kept looking for apartments. In my opinion we were even happier that way than as a couple. My mental health was improving. I started a new job, mostly from home but hybrid so I had some meetings and it involved some events I had to attend. I was going out the apartment more often and I started to run errands and go to the store almost as a normal person. I was doing my best effort. When I had to share the elevator with another neighbor they used to get really surprised by my presence. They all used to ask if I was visiting or if I was new in the building. I found rather odd the interrogations all the time but I just used to reply that I live in the 7th and that Ive been living here for 2 years now. They were at first usually shocked and then they were like oh yeah you're the physician's fiance. I never got the guts to correct them by saying I was his ex, mostly because he was still around and it just makes no sense so I would wait until he move out to do so.
But 6 months passed and my ex was no where near to move out. It was ok to me to stay as roommates and I didn't felt like it was a big deal that the neighbors believe that we were still a couple. He never corrected them either when they asked him stuff like when was gonna be the wedding. But at that time Ive just met someone at an event from work that I was really into (24M). He asked me out and we went to a few dates that were amazing. There was an awesome connection and we started dating.
We usually hang up at his place because my apartment is kinda far anyway and also I didn't knew how to tell him the situation with my ex/roommate. After 2 months dating I already knew I wanted a relationship with him, I was happier than ever I never had felt that way before, we were both so truly in love so I told him everything and he was totally fine with that and he understood that it was not uncommon for exs to live together for a while until one of them find somewhere to go. He didn't knew that almost 9 months had passed tho.
On the other hand when I told my ex about my new bf that was coming to visit he lost it. I didn't expect him to freak out that way because he used to tell me about his crushes and his dates in that time we were living only as roommates and it was fine I already saw him like a friend amd even gave him advices with girls but he got real mad when I mention the word bf and that he was visiting anytime soon. He said how can you this to me and that he thought I was just sleeping around but he didn't expected something like that.
I immediately realized that maybe he still had some feelings for me so I tried to be as kind as possible and he started to look more seriously for places to move. My bf only came to visit whenever my ex was working all night at the hospital so we don't disturbed him and I was really careful they never crossed knowing how my ex feeling about him. The situation was really awkward and my new bf one day told me that he had very weird encounters at the halls of the buildings with neighbors asking who was him and who was he visiting. At that time I'm pretty sure that most of the neighbors thought that I was having an affair. They never liked me anyway because I was quiet because of my mental issues and they might have take the wrong impression but I was just unable to small talk. They adored my ex fiance tho so they kinda hate me now. He found a place to live and he moved out right away.
4 months had passed from that, my bf and I are so happy together and he started to work from home too so he is spending a lot of time in my place because some issues with his roommate. We aren't talking about living together yet but he comes at least 5 days at week. My sister came one weekend to visit for the first time and she heard some neighbors chatting on the elevator about me without knowing who she was. They were saying that I was cheating my fiance with a some much uglier guy that I used to have over anytime my fiance had a shift at the hospital and that he one day found out and left me. It was really disturbing to know that but I didn't wanted to get involved and I didn't really care about their opinions of me. It was awful the looks I got from them but I didn't went out too often anyway. The president of the neighbors, the doctor from the 3rd that was friends with my ex, called me on Sunday to complain about my sister's car staying to long on the garage and they didn't recognize the car and it wasn't allowed to have visitor's cars on our garage. It was actually on my spot because I don't own a car and there was literally nothing wrong with that. So I avoid confrontation and told her ok and hang up but actually I was not going to make my sister move her car at night it was ridiculous and she was leaving early in the morning anyway. But I didn't had the courage to reply her what I actually thought because of my social anxiety. So when the doctor left in the morning the car was still there because my sister decided to stay until 10am to avoid traffic and I told her it was fine because she has every right to have her car on my spot and it doesn't bother anyone that her car is there but the neighbor just hates me and wants to give me a bad time for no reason. I didn't expect the rest of the neighbors to support her but they convocated a meeting of neighbors only to accuse me for what I did. It was everyone against me at the meeting. It was terrifying for me and my mental health, like a public amonestation at the lobby of the building where everyone got together to complain about me. I tried to defend myself without crying about that there's no rule against the visitor's car on the owner spot. But they said they didn't care, it was just disrespectful to tell the president on the phone that I was moving the car and then just don't move it. I can't stress enough that all of the neighbors are older than 40, at least the ones that were at that meeting. They started to complain that I was also rude, that I never talked to anyone not got the time to know them or to participate on the building's reunions and parties and that I had a guest over visiting too often, probably a bf, that doesn't pay rent and that they need to know his name and last name because I have to inform to the building if I'm having a new partner or roommate. Everything was surreal and I just left the meeting without saying a word. I couldn't stand it anymore. I locked in my apartment and I am trying to understand that they must hate me because of a misunderstood about me cheating my fiance but I actually felt so angry because even if that was true they had no right to do something like that. They are always rude to my new boyfriend and I have to keep living here for at least 2 years and I don't know how to do so with all this bad energy and I am scared and I haven't left my apartment today and I don't know what to do and I just can't stop crying and having no appetite and feeling like another depression episode might be coming back.

So I (25F) just moved here like 3 years ago. This is a 7 floors building, there are approximately 20 apartments I believe and all of the neighbors are like really close to each other and know each other for decades and most of them are older than 40 fsr and had always lived here. I first move in with my former fiancé (27M), we had been together for 4 years, he is an extrovert and introduced himself to the other neighbors that same day. He is a physician assistant student and he immediately made some friends like a doctor from the 3rd floor and some nurse. When we first moved in I was going through a very bad depression episode. I was diagnosed with depression at 12, I used to handle it but at 21 I went to a traumatic experience (that actually lead me to move here from an apartment that I used to love) so when I was settling in I wasn't in the mood of meeting new neighbors or small talk so I never actually got to know them, but my ex fiancé did. I work from home so I dont usually hang around the building cause I almost never leave my apartment because of my social anxiety and my allergies to the weather of my country most of the year. My ex fiancé on the other hand was always coming and going so he met a lot of the neighbors when going to work or running errands.
So last year I was actually starting to feel kinda better and I began to leave my apartment more often to meet old friends etc. But my relationship with my fiancé was not going too well. We still loved and cared about each other but we weren't working as a couple, it got kinda platonic. We decided to end our relationship and to stop the wedding plans but we continued living together with no drama until he found a nice place to move. He decided that he would be the one who moves because the apartment was too far away from his work anyway and he didn't want me to stress out with another moving after all I went through. There was no rush from me, I wanted him to find his perfect place so he moved temporarily to the guest room and we were living peacefully almost as roommates while he kept looking for apartments. In my opinion we were even happier that way than as a couple. My mental health was improving. I started a new job, mostly from home but hybrid so I had some meetings and it involved some events I had to attend. I was going out the apartment more often and I started to run errands and go to the store almost as a normal person. I was doing my best effort. When I had to share the elevator with another neighbor they used to get really surprised by my presence. They all used to ask if I was visiting or if I was new in the building. I found rather odd the interrogations all the time but I just used to reply that I live in the 7th and that Ive been living here for 2 years now. They were at first usually shocked and then they were like oh yeah you're the physician's fiance. I never got the guts to correct them by saying I was his ex, mostly because he was still around and it just makes no sense so I would wait until he move out to do so.
But 6 months passed and my ex was no where near to move out. It was ok to me to stay as roommates and I didn't felt like it was a big deal that the neighbors believe that we were still a couple. He never corrected them either when they asked him stuff like when was gonna be the wedding. But at that time Ive just met someone at an event from work that I was really into (24M). He asked me out and we went to a few dates that were amazing. There was an awesome connection and we started dating.
We usually hang up at his place because my apartment is kinda far anyway and also I didn't knew how to tell him the situation with my ex/roommate. After 2 months dating I already knew I wanted a relationship with him, I was happier than ever I never had felt that way before, we were both so truly in love so I told him everything and he was totally fine with that and he understood that it was not uncommon for exs to live together for a while until one of them find somewhere to go. He didn't knew that almost 9 months had passed tho.
On the other hand when I told my ex about my new bf that was coming to visit he lost it. I didn't expect him to freak out that way because he used to tell me about his crushes and his dates in that time we were living only as roommates and it was fine I already saw him like a friend amd even gave him advices with girls but he got real mad when I mention the word bf and that he was visiting anytime soon. He said how can you this to me and that he thought I was just sleeping around but he didn't expected something like that.
I immediately realized that maybe he still had some feelings for me so I tried to be as kind as possible and he started to look more seriously for places to move. My bf only came to visit whenever my ex was working all night at the hospital so we don't disturbed him and I was really careful they never crossed knowing how my ex feeling about him. The situation was really awkward and my new bf one day told me that he had very weird encounters at the halls of the buildings with neighbors asking who was him and who was he visiting. At that time I'm pretty sure that most of the neighbors thought that I was having an affair. They never liked me anyway because I was quiet because of my mental issues and they might have take the wrong impression but I was just unable to small talk. They adored my ex fiance tho so they kinda hate me now. He found a place to live and he moved out right away.
4 months had passed from that, my bf and I are so happy together and he started to work from home too so he is spending a lot of time in my place because some issues with his roommate. We aren't talking about living together yet but he comes at least 5 days at week. My sister came one weekend to visit for the first time and she heard some neighbors chatting on the elevator about me without knowing who she was. They were saying that I was cheating my fiance with a some much uglier guy that I used to have over anytime my fiance had a shift at the hospital and that he one day found out and left me. It was really disturbing to know that but I didn't wanted to get involved and I didn't really care about their opinions of me. It was awful the looks I got from them but I didn't went out too often anyway. The president of the neighbors, the doctor from the 3rd that was friends with my ex, called me on Sunday to complain about my sister's car staying to long on the garage and they didn't recognize the car and it wasn't allowed to have visitor's cars on our garage. It was actually on my spot because I don't own a car and there was literally nothing wrong with that. So I avoid confrontation and told her ok and hang up but actually I was not going to make my sister move her car at night it was ridiculous and she was leaving early in the morning anyway. But I didn't had the courage to reply her what I actually thought because of my social anxiety. So when the doctor left in the morning the car was still there because my sister decided to stay until 10am to avoid traffic and I told her it was fine because she has every right to have her car on my spot and it doesn't bother anyone that her car is there but the neighbor just hates me and wants to give me a bad time for no reason. I didn't expect the rest of the neighbors to support her but they convocated a meeting of neighbors only to accuse me for what I did. It was everyone against me at the meeting. It was terrifying for me and my mental health, like a public amonestation at the lobby of the building where everyone got together to complain about me. I tried to defend myself without crying about that there's no rule against the visitor's car on the owner spot. But they said they didn't care, it was just disrespectful to tell the president on the phone that I was moving the car and then just don't move it. I can't stress enough that all of the neighbors are older than 40, at least the ones that were at that meeting. They started to complain that I was also rude, that I never talked to anyone not got the time to know them or to participate on the building's reunions and parties and that I had a guest over visiting too often, probably a bf, that doesn't pay rent and that they need to know his name and last name because I have to inform to the building if I'm having a new partner or roommate. Everything was surreal and I just left the meeting without saying a word. I couldn't stand it anymore. I locked in my apartment and I am trying to understand that they must hate me because of a misunderstood about me cheating my fiance but I actually felt so angry because even if that was true they had no right to do something like that. They are always rude to my new boyfriend and I have to keep living here for at least 2 years and I don't know how to do so with all this bad energy and I am scared and I haven't left my apartment today and I don't know what to do and I just can't stop crying and having no appetite and feeling like another depression episode might be coming back.

Having dated a Lexi, Mildred, and Aussie, I wanted to share some reflections and include a few things that I like about their partners. (Mal is also a fav and the best person I’ve ever seen on reality tv, and there is a lot of well-deserved love for them throughout this community.) I believe these three do not get the recognition they deserve:
Rae - I really feel for Rae. It’s really hard to know who you are when the person you love is controlling, wants you to be an inauthentic version of yourself, isn’t supportive of you, and has made it normal to humiliate you and put you in uncomfortable situations. In life, and especially romantic partnership, we should be encouraged to do what makes us feel free. We can’t be free when our whole relationship is based on conditions and being who our partner wants us to be. I hope Rae is happier now and gets to explore in all the ways she wants to. Even though she didn’t want to be on the show, it meant a lot to see representation of a queer, short, sporty Asian femme. And her trial marriage with Vanessa had issues, but it seemed like she had more fun and was more spontaneous than with Lexi.
Tiff - My heart goes out to Tiff. I hope viewers can be more empathetic to them and what they experienced. It’s extremely challenging to be a victim of a violent narcissist such as Mildred. In abusive relationships like this one, it’s easy for people on the outside to blame both parties for being toxic, without seeing obvious patterns from one side over and over again. I’m glad that they have a podcast where they can now speak openly about the nightmare that was their past relationship, attachment issues, and how they’ve been learning to heal. The entire season and especially the reunion, we all witnessed Tiff in immense pain while Mildred continuously gets away with abusing them - even with the support of other cast members. I hope Tiff’s genuine love can be redirected to themself after the torture they endured.
Sam - It’s refreshing and beautiful to see how patient and thoughtful she is. I have thoughts about her relationship with Aussie that I won’t get into, but I hope she continues to speak up for herself and advocates for her needs.
I also like that these three are aware that they’re not perfect and that they don’t try to be.