DISCLAIMER
I almost didn’t post this. Not because I think it’s too wild or doesn’t make any sense. In fact, quite the opposite. The information I present here, which is the result of countless hours spent re-watching videos, listening to audio, and cross-referencing official information, is something that now seems to me to be far too viable not to be correct. I have actually tried to prove this theory wrong and… well basically I can’t. So, please bear this in mind as you read. This could end up being one of those rare occasions when we’re actually onto something. Either way, I hope you enjoy the post.
First point; this is going to be a long post. Given the subject matter, it needs to be. Second point; I have not added any images or videos directly into the post but have instead included a great many links embedded within the text itself. This should ensure that the post is no longer than it needs to be but should still allow you sufficient opportunity to fully scrutinize every part of my theory, so that you can determine for yourself whether or not you think it holds weight.
I have organised all of the information under specific headings designed to make everything more accessible. Each section focuses on a particular aspect of the main theory. Even if you think that some of what you are reading may not be relevant, I can assure you that everything written here has been included as an important part of a much larger puzzle, and so I would advise that you patiently make your way through the entirety of the post. In an effort to ensure that your time invested here is appropriately rewarded, and in the spirit of preserving the scientific method, I have tried to keep flavor text and blind speculation down to an absolute minimum.
Note that I will be listing various aspects of this post as being confirmed correct or incorrect as and when we have official information to verify such facts. So here we are, after five long years of waiting, the inevitable release of Starfield, like the event horizon of some nearby black hole, is almost upon us. With the Showcase now a mere 24 hours away, it is time for us to take a look at what makes this particular game so special, as well as discovering just how we will be given the means to fly among the stars.
And so, without further ado, let us begin.
Hitchhiker's Guide
From watching gameplay footage, and also listening to various devs talk about Starfield, we know that at some along the early part of the story, we will find ourselves on board a Constellation Starship, which is appropriately named Frontier. With us on the ship is VASCO, an adorable robot assistant who will eventually become one of our possible companions. But how did we even end up on this ship? Well firstly, I do not believe that Frontier is our ship, or at least not at first. And so, we’re probably here in the capacity of a ‘guest’ of some kind, or more likely, a hitchhiker.
If we take a look at this scene, we first hear a male shouting “that’s the Crimson Fleet!” and then a female saying “Everybody get ready!” After this, we can see that the group we are with is attacked. We already know that we uncover some kind of unknown artifact whilst mining for ore near the beginning of the Main Quest, and that the aforementioned Crimson Fleet is essentially an organised collective of space pirates. But what we don’t know is why they attacked us. This is not something I will be diving into in this particular post, although I do have some theories about this. But the relevance of the series of events here described cannot be understated, as they seem to be the launching point for our entry into Constellation and the adventures that follow.
Next, if we look a little further, we can see that this seemingly-important member of Constellation is not with us when we arrive at their Headquarters on Jemison, which suggests that he may have been killed during the above mentioned attack. Also note that, in-spite of not having a voiced protagonist this time round, we can clearly hear somebody talking over Frontier’s comms system, which means that there must be a designated pilot. Given the fact that we don’t see anyone who is confirmed as being the pilot (although it may actually be this person), it is safe to assume that this designated individual was with us during the flight but was first injured in the attack on the planet’s surface and was then taken to Medical Bay after we successfully land on Jemison.
It is my belief that, after perhaps being exposed to some kind of energy pulse from a grenade or something similar, the first member of Constellation we see was outright killed (hence why we are then asked to join up ourselves, perhaps to take over his role). The pilot, however, clearly survived as we can hear him talking to Control over the comms system during what is actually an extended two-way conversation, but I think that his vision was somehow compromised so that, even though he is able to speak, he is temporarily unable to see. The good news about this most unfortunate situation is that it opens the door for us to quickly step into the hot seat and, with the pilot acting as our guide, we will experience our very first Starfield flight tutorial.
Radio Chatter
If you listen to the beginning of both the Official Teaser Trailer and Official Gameplay Reveal for Starfield, you will hear both halves of the radio conversation I have referenced above, or at least the parts of it that Bethesda have given us so far. The first of these is spoken by somebody being referred to as Control, and the second by Frontier’s pilot. I previously posted a link to an audio I made and put up on Soundcloud, which gives us all of the confirmed parts of this conversation carefully spliced together and enhanced for clarity. Note that some of the audio, despite these enhancements, is a little hard to make out.
The final, in-game conversation is going to be a fair bit longer than what we have here and will be based on the specific processes that are required before attempting a Grav Jump. I don’t think we will hear this conversation every time we perform a Jump (especially given that our protagonist does not speak), but the first time we experience this early step-out moment, a detailed and appropriate pre-launch conversation will only serve to enhance what I’m sure will be an awe-inspiring experience.
Note that, at the end of this post, I have provided a link to a written transcript detailing what I think is being said in the full version of the above conversation. In the meantime, here is a breakdown of the confirmed parts of this audio. This is slightly different from the version I previously posted, due to new evidence clarifying exactly what is being said here. I have left line-spaces to help show where the missing parts of the audio will eventually go:
PILOT: "Control this is Constellation Starship Frontier."
CONTROL: "Constellation Starship Frontier, we have you on scanners."
PILOT: "We're ready to start on your signal."
CONTROL: "Performing Road Systems check. Helium-3 tanks, check. Seals are intact."
PILOT: "Maintaining Exit Vector course, Steady 'till Ready."
CONTROL: "We are still go."
PILOT: "Coordinates input, plotting Jump course."
CONTROL: "We read you Constellation."
PILOT: "Sky-Bus is converged, we're looking good."
CONTROL: "Jemison route looks good."
PILOT: "Allocating Auxiliary Reactor Power."
CONTROL: "Prepare for departure. Graviton Loop Array Spool, check."
PILOT: "System checks are green across the board."
CONTROL: "Your space Lane is clear."
PILOT: "Grav Jump commencing in 5, 4, 3, 2, 1."
Road-Trip
At first, this seems like a typical, albeit futuristic version of an Air Traffic Control conversation. After all, much of what is being said does sound very familiar, and the rest seems appropriate to Starfield’s apparent Hard Science Fiction theme. But it’s only when you start digging a little deeper that you realize that something else is going on here as well.
Note the following terms taken from the above transcript: Road, Exit, Course, Coordinates, Bus, Route, Departure and Lane. All these words share a very noticeable common theme. They are all in some way related to Road Networks. Note also the phrase “green across the board," which sounds like it could also be a reference to Traffic Lights.
Zooming Along
Next, let’s look at this map, which features the home of a certain Software Development Company you may have heard of. If you zoom out a fair bit, you will see two large Cities, namely Washington and Baltimore. Zoom out a little more, and you can now see the cities of Richmond to the South and Pittsburgh to the North-West. Zoom back in over any of these four major cities, and you will see that there are many more smaller locations within each of the city limits.
Now scroll the map over to any of the areas outside of these cities, and you will find a multitude of other important locations. These include residential areas, airports, medical facilities, sports and leisure facilities, research facilities, manufacturing facilities, tech companies, supermarkets), hotels, places of worship, and many others. All the above locations are important in one way of another to the continued functioning of our society, and all can be placed within two distinct categories. These are Population Centers and Infrastructure.
You’re Gonna Need a Bigger Boat
Now imagine that there has been some kind of catastrophic flood in this area, and all these locations, although somehow miraculously intact, are now separated from each other as a series of individual islands in the middle of a newly formed ‘ocean’. Suddenly, the existing Road Network, along with any cars, busses, and other road vehicles, would become useless. You would need to use a completely different system, one designed to properly accommodate these changes, which would of course have to incorporate such elements as harbors, shipping routes, and vehicles capable of travelling along a waterway.
Now let’s zoom out again, this time further. Much, much, further. Each location has now been transformed into either a planet or a moon, spread across various star systems covering a vast region of space. Each one of these planets and moons will have its own individual features, resources, possible inhabitants, and infrastructure requirements. With such a quantum leap in terms of scale, if we now wanted to travel between these locations, which could in many cases end up being several light years apart, we are going to need something far bigger in terms of scale, complexity, and technology.
Shown In 60 Seconds
During the first ever 60 seconds of Starfield footage we all saw, shown in the form of the Official Announcement Teaser at the end of BE3 on June 11th 2018 (which redditor InToddWeTrust2023 has very nicely referenced here), we were given some surprisingly important clues which now form the cornerstone of this theory. Not only have these clues stacked up with every consecutive trailer released, as well as many of the other official videos and various other snippets of information, but their sheer level of consistency places them well outside the realm of possible coincidence.
Some of these additional clues were given to us in the two videos referenced above which contain the comms audio. The second of these two videos, namely the Official Gameplay Reveal, dropped, as would be expected, at the end of last year’s Showcase on June 12th 2022. Some of the most crucial information we have been given to date regarding my theory is actually contained in the 70 seconds shown before Todd even begins to speak. We will discuss the relevance of all of this a little further on in the post.
Lo-go/no go
First, some Space related terminology. In Mission Control speak, a Launch Status Check, also known as a go/no go poll, is part of a very carefully designed system implemented by US Space Agencies to ensure maximum safety and the best possible survival chance of both the ship and its crew prior to launch. This, or something similar, will undoubtedly form an integral part of the pre-launch, or rather, pre-Jump procedures incorporated into Starfield, especially given what we know in relation to its specific influences, attention to detail, and focus on realism.
But let's look for a moment at a different type of launch. Let's look at the process of carefully managing the flow of information when you are launching a long-awaited, multi-million-dollar triple-A video game and you happen to be a major player. With the combined might of Bethesda, Zenimax, and now Microsoft, there is clearly a great deal of scope in terms of how they were able to execute all of the steps involved in this process. One critically important factor, and one that has been masterfully implemented in the promotion of Starfield, is the use of familiar iconography.
If we look at the iconography seen during the promotion of Starfield, we can see that there are two main elements. These are the circular Starfield logo, first unveiled in 2018, and of course the recently updated Bethesda Games Studios logo, which has existed in various iterations since around 2006. Both of these share a common, simplistic yet effective design, and the BGS logo in particular is now light years ahead of its original design as seen on box art and in promotional materials for The Elder Scrolls VI Oblivion. At the time of Oblivion’s release, the long-term use of this particular logo, which incorporates the now familiar Fallout Vault Door, was a little uncertain due to restrictions with the associated licence (more on this below). But once this matter had been resolved, it would make a lot of sense that they would then develop this logo into the much sharper, more modern version we see today.
Licenced to Fly
Way back in April of 2007, Bethesda realized one of their biggest long-term business goals by finally securing the full rights to the highly acclaimed Fallout series. Prior to this, in 2004, they had been granted limited rights which would allow them to develop Fallout 3 and then two additional games, but they clearly wanted full and unrestricted access to the franchise and all of its assets. Since this time, in addition to Fallout 3, we have seen the release of Fallout New Vegas, Fallout 4, and Fallout 76, as well as a number of smaller projects, including Fallout Shelter. This is all the proof you need to confirm the fact that, in-spite of some initial setbacks, Bethesda’s insistence on going the extra mile with regards to securing the full franchise, was most definitely worth it, and was seen by many as a landmark achievement.
Looking at the most recent entry to this ever-expanding series, namely Fallout 76, I would like to draw your attention to two of this particular game’s trailers. First, we have the Fallout 76 Official Trailer from 2018, and then The Pitt Story Trailer from 2022. In the first of these two trailers, at around the 35 second mark, we see the new BGS logo once again, and then near the end of the video we see a smaller version, neatly tucked away over on the left-hand side of the usual copyright notice. If we then look at the second trailer, at around… Hold on a second, let me rewind that a bit… wait, what?
This is where things start to get really interesting.
One Small Step
Okay, going back to the Fallout 76 trailers, although the smaller version of the BGS logo can be seen at or near the end of each of these, only the first incorporates the larger, ‘splash-screen’ version. “But why is this even important?” you may ask. “They may have simply forgotten to include this detail in the second trailer.” I can assure you that this is most certainly not the case. In fact, I am one-hundred-percent confident that this was quite intentional. I would even go as far as saying that this one, seemingly insignificant detail, actually brings us a step closer to unlocking the secrets of Starfield. Essentially, Bethesda have taken full advantage of how we all think we remember certain details, and as such, this is an example of truly expert-level hidden marketing on their part. I also believe it will form the basis of at least one of the big reveals during the showcase.
One Giant Leap
Let’s go back one more time to the Announcement Teaser and the Gameplay Reveal for Starfield. Look at how drastically different the BGS logo is in both of these videos compared to any of those used in promoting Fallout 76. What will really blow your mind here is the fact that all four of the trailers mentioned above were first shown to us during the same two Showcases we have just been discussing! In other words, the first of these videos for both Fallout 76 and Starfield were both unveiled at the 2018 Showcase, and the second of each at the 2022 Showcase. And yet each respective pair make use of drastically different versions of what we all thought was the exact same logo. This means that Starfield has been designed, from the ground up, to be viewed and experienced in a totally different way than, and completely separate from, any of Bethesda’s previous titles.
To clarify this point, after extensive research, I can confirm that this new, animated BGS logo, with the vault door rolling off to the left and then ‘opening up’ just before the text appears, has never been featured anywhere in an official capacity that is not directly related to Starfield. It is completely unique to this specific IP. This fact ties together everything we have looked at in the post so far. It also lets us see things from a completely different ‘orbital’ perspective. For example, I believe that this information gives us the real reason why Bethesda worked so hard to secure the full rights to the Fallout franchise in the way that they did. Not only did they wish to create awesome games set within the Fallout universe, but they also needed total freedom to make use of a specific part of this franchise that so that they could then incorporate it into their next, very very big, space related IP.
For Mankind
Okay. This is the part you’ve all been waiting so patiently for. This is the big reveal. For months now, perhaps even years, we have all been drip-fed the idea that Starfield is essentially “Skyrim in Space.” The reason I think that we have been told this is to misdirect us away from an intrinsic, interwoven connection between Starfield and Bethesda’s other major franchise, which is of course Fallout. But just to put your mind at rest, I do not for a nanosecond believe that the reveal will be, “We fooled you all, it’s actually Fallout in space!” no matter how cool that might at first sound.
What I do believe is that Starfield will be so different and so unique when viewed alongside anything else that Bethesda have published, that it will quite literally take your breath away. This game, the spark of which was first ignited 25 years ago, is Todd Howard’s true passion project. Everything else was simply the path he took to finally get here. This is the story he has always wanted to tell, the story of Mankind’s true legacy. And it all starts, just as it did when Interplay released the original Fallout) game back in 1997, with a familiar, but staggeringly different Vault Door.
The Vault
There is a very special and completely unique hidden Vault in Starfield. Not only is this particular Vault unlike anything you have previously seen anywhere within the Fallout universe, but it is also unlike anything you have seen in any game. Period.
This hidden Vault is actually the key to both interstellar and interplanetary travel. And it also happens to be the single biggest construction project in human history, extending across a span of almost one-hundred light years. And it is not even close to being completed, even after more than two-hundred years of construction.
This Vault is, by its very nature, completely invisible and shielded away from view. It is quite literally hidden in plain sight, and it can only be accessed through one of its specially crafted Vault Doors. But what does all of this mean for gameplay, and how does something like this even work? I’m glad you asked! Let’s strap in and prepare for launch, because we’re all in for an incredible ride.
Welcome, ladies and gentlemen... to The Starfield
Entering The Starfield
The following is my own interpretation, based on scientific reasoning and a huge amount of detailed analysis, of exactly how I think this system works. It is, as ever, backed up with several links throughout, as well as additional evidence for which I shall provide a separate link at end of the post. I am expecting perhaps some differences in terms of specific details once we get hold of the final release of Starfield, but I am confident that I am at the very least well within the ballpark with all of this. Okay, here goes.
The Science Behind the Magic
Starfield is the name given to a vast network of interconnecting tunnels, spanning the entirety of the Settled Systems, providing us with a very fast and highly practical means of travelling between different planets, and even different star systems. These tunnels exist within a localized, folded state, known as Tunnel-Space. The construction of the Starfield is made possible thanks to a technological breakthrough which allows gravitational waves (or Gravitons) to be woven together to form something known as a Gravity-Tunnel, which is then stretched out and connected between any two existing stellar objects, such as two planets in a given system, of even two stars from different systems.
In order to maintain the integrity of each tunnel, it is wrapped in a special type of Exotic Matter known as Superfluid Helium. This has a number of highly unusual properties, including negative energy density and negative energy pressure. This essentially makes it the physical-space equivalent of time going in reverse, meaning that it is capable of counteracting the effects of any conventional physical force, including the gravitational pull of a black hole. As such, it will hold the structure of the Gravity-Tunnel together for an indefinite period of time over a potentially infinite distance through space.
Within the Starfield are a large number of Nodes and Junction Points. Nodes are used to connect together all of the planets in any one Star System, and Junction Points then connect different Star Systems together, making use of much larger Gravity-Tunnels that are the equivalent of Interstate Highways. Note that all flight between any given planet and any or all of its moons is handled locally, outside of the Starfield.
Because all of the stars, planets, and moons in the Settled Systems are in a constant state of flux, by which I mean their relative distance and positions) are constantly changing in respect to each other, the tunnels within the Starfield have been designed to be able to expand and contract almost infinitely so that they can accommodate any changes in these two factors depending on when, where, and how you travel.
Although the main tunnels are designed to transport people, resources, waste, and other items directly relating to either Population Centers or Infrastructure, I believe there is also a sub-system) that will allow much smaller objects, such as probes, to carry data-packets that can be upload at one location and then downloaded at another, effectively solving the problem of inoperable delays in communication between remote locations.
Inside of each Gravity-Tunnel is a bi-directional singularity, which can be switched between two opposite polarities whenever required with the help of the surrounding Exotic Matter, allowing for two-way traffic inside what is essentially a one-way system. This means that, as long as you are able to ensure the correct polarity of all connecting Nodes and Junction Points along your route (as in “Sky-Bus is converged” and “Jemison route looks good”), you will be able to travel, in theory at least, from any point A to any point B, as long as all of the required interconnections exist within the system.
When travelling through the Starfield, you will set a specific route, known as a Sky-Bus, which is a specified pathway that runs from your staring location to your destination. You will then, with the help of Starfield Control, access the tunnels using a Gating System which I will explain below. Incidentally, I believe that the accepted in-universe name for the actual transit network that we are making use of within the Starfield is the Sky-Bus Tunnel System.
Each tunnel in this system actually has two separate ‘Lanes’, one on the left for outbound traffic, and one on the right for incoming traffic. As I have explained above, each of these tunnels can only accommodate a single direction of traffic flow at any given time. And so, a safety measure had to be incorporated to prevent any accidental attempts to travel the wrong way down a tunnel and destroying yourself and your ship.
At each end of any given Node or Junction Point is a Gate. These are the ‘Vault Doors’ I have been referring to. The Gate comprises of a gigantic metal outer-ring connecting to an inner Vault Door. This Vault Door will either be at the center (closed position), or the left (open position) of the outer ring. The open/left position will allow outbound traffic to leave the orbit of the current planet they are in proximity to. To allow inbound traffic, the entire outer ring, with the Vault Door locked in place, will rotate clockwise through 180 degrees to the open/right position to allow access to the inbound Lane. When the outbound Lane is then once again required, the structure then continues to rotate in a clockwise motion until it reaches the open/left position once again. When required, the Vault Door will return to the neutral position at the center of the ring, and the tunnel will be locked.
Regarding Grav Jumps: Whenever you wish to perform a Grav-Jump, you must first request permission from Starfield Control, who will guide you through the process. Once the route is set and your Exit Gate is locked in place, by activating your ship’s Grav-Drive, along with it’s incorporated spooling system, you will first lock on to the front of the tunnel entrance.
Next, using a system similar to an Aircraft Catapult, you will be pulled into the tunnel at great speed, where the Graviton Loop Array will hold your ship in-place inside the tunnel, and will also ensure you don’t accidentally go down the wrong path. At the other end, the spooling system described above then acts as an Arresting Cable, slowing you down over a very short distance.
If all of the above is actually correct, especially the last part, then I think I will be having this on repeat in the background before Grav-Jumps!
Finally, here is the link to my additional supporting evidence and other materials, including some stuff I haven’t had a chance to really go into yet. Feel free to throw any questions at me, and I’ll do my best to answer them. In the meantime, Showcase will commence in 24 Hours…

(If this post is still up, I'm still looking!)
Hey there. I really want to develop a female led/slight gentle femdom relationship with a special guy.
When a lot of men see the term "female led relationship," they think, "Oh, the woman will make all the decisions with no input on what I think/want."
Are there dynamics like that? I'm sure there is. Personally, I'm not looking to be "the boss" or "above" you in any way. I want us to be equal... but have you give up control to me in a few other ways. :)
What do I mean? Keep reading on!
● ABOUT ME ●
You can call me Dreamer for now. (I'll tell you my real name once we get to know each other) Please do NOT call me Miss, Master, Dominatrix or Ma'am.
I'm 25 years old and an INFJ-T. I live in Nashville, Tennessee, USA (AKA Music City) and I'm on Central Standard Time. I'm a Black woman and I stand 5 feet, 7 inches tall. My eyes are brown and I wear glasses. I don't have any tattoos or piercings at the moment.
One thing I want to mention is that I'm plus size, AKA a bigger girl. I'm undergoing a vertical sleeve gastrectomy in two months to lose the excess weight I have in a sustainable and permanent way. I'm ready to regain my body and be healthy and confident again. I'd love to have you by my side throughout my journey!
As far as personality goes, I'd describe myself as empathetic and sweet. I like to help others as much as I can. In person, I tend to be rather shy at first. People tend to mistake that for weakness or gullibility. I'm anything but; my strength lies in introspection and quiet observation. I notice every nuance of a person's actions, words, body language, vibe... my intuition hasn't steered me wrong yet!
● INTERESTS ●
I won't go into detail on every single interest that I have but I'll talk about my biggest ones that you'll likely hear me mention the most.
✨️Writing✨️
I've been writing since I was six years old, but I started taking it seriously around 13 years old. All in all, it's been 19 years. As of right now, I primarily write Fanfiction but in the past, I've written short stories, poetry and I even tried to learn how to write screenplays at one point.
I wrote my first full-length book in 2018/2019. I started the sequel in early 2020, but I'm still working on it. I lost a LOT of inspiration during the pandemic but I'm finally writing for it again.
If you also enjoy writing, I'd love to "talk shop" with you and maybe we can exchange some of our past works.
✨️Music✨️
Music has gotten me through a lot over the years. Yeah, yeah, I know everyone says that. But it truly has. It's shaped my life and introduced me to a lot of things and people that I probably never would've done or met otherwise.
There's no point in saying I like xyz genre because I've listened to pretty much everything. The only ones I truly hate are country and gangster rap. If you want specifics, though... I've been a HUGE twenty one pilots fan for 9 years. (I have more merch, stickers and other random shit than I care to admit to lmao) I also love other artists like Amber Run, Purity Ring, Phantogram, Daughter, Lorde, OneRepublic... plus tons more.
I've always had this dumb idea of a guy and I confessing to each other through playlists with songs that make us think fondly about each other...
God, I'm single.
✨️Photography✨️
I've been into photography for 10 years and I've had my DSLR for eight years. (It's definitely the camera version of 'Ol Reliable) I enjoy nature and portrait photography. I'd love to show you some of my work and get your thoughts on it.
✨️TV/Movies✨️
TV genres I like: Animation (like Spongebob), comedy, drama, documentaries (disaster and crime ones are my favorites), true crime (like Forensic Files), old sitcoms (like Sanford and Son) and cooking and baking competitions/reality TV (like Kitchen Nightmares US and UK, Hell's Kitchen, Master Chef, The Great British Baking Show, etc)
Movie genres I like: Animation, drama, comedy, action, psychological thrillers and science fiction. I thoroughly loved The Greatest Showman so one could say I like musicals but it's the only one I've seen so not sure if that really counts. Comic book movies are pretty alright too, but I really haven't seen anything past the first Avengers movie lmaooooo.
I say this as unpretentiously as possible, but I haven't seen most popular TV shows or movies that your average person likes. I think the last "popular" thing I watched was that Jeffrey Dahmer series on Netflix. (mainly out of morbid curiosity because everyone was freaking out about it... and because I think Evan Peters is a cutie) I only saw a few episodes and then forgot to watch the rest of it, but it wasn't as horrific as everyone was saying. Maybe I've watched too much Forensic Files and I'm desensitized lmao.
✨️Video and computer games✨️
Video game genres I like: Adventure, action-adventure, RPGs & JRPGs, Strategy... basically anything that is relatively fun and not horror related.
Some of my all-time favorites: Kingdom Hearts II, Ratchet and Clank, Journey, Final Fantasy VII and Final Fantasy X.
As far as computer games, the only thing I play on a regular basis is The Sims 2 and The Sims 4. As a kid, I loved simulator and time-management games; some old favorites are the RCT series, Simcity: Rush Hour, the first four Diner Dash games, the Delicious series and Burger Shop 2 (which I still have on my computer actually lmao)
✨️Other random interests✨️
Art, traveling, people watching, researching random topics on Wikipedia and watching YouTube, especially channels with old shows and movies.
☆ CAREER ☆
My last position was working nights at a psychiatric hospital. I'm looking for something new at the moment.
☆ SCHOOLING ☆
I'm officially a college student at 25. Yay! Feel free to ask me more about it, I'd love to talk.
☆ ET CETERA ☆
I really love dogs and cats. I have three cats and they're little demons but I love them to death. I also love small animals like ferrets, bunnies and snakes!
My main love languages are words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/receiving. To be honest, though, there's elements of each language that I enjoy or relate to in one way or another.
I don't smoke and I drink every so often. Otherwise, I'm vaccinated and DDF.
● ABOUT YOU ●
I'm looking for a guy between the ages of 23-33 years old. I might be willing to talk to someone within two years in either direction (so 21 min and 35 max) if you meet all my other preferences/wants. If you're younger than 21 or older than 35, though, please don't contact me.
Please be single and emotionally available. I won't interact with anyone already in a relationship or married (even if you're separated or in a "dead bedroom," you're STILL married) and I'm especially not interested in poly/ENM. I'm 100% monogamous.
Hair is super important to me! I prefer medium length to long hair, something I can stroke and play with a lot lmao.
I have a REALLY big soft spot for blue and/or doe eyes, but don't let that deter you. If you have kind eyes, I'll fall in love with them, no matter their color!
I tend to like softer facial features and even softer personalities. Are you super masculine in public but a total softie in private? Lovely! Are you less masculine but a little more feminine? Great! Are you androgynous or otherwise fall somewhere in between? I can dig it!
Key traits that I like in a guy include, but are not limited to: Being sweet, gentle, empathetic, considerate, an active listener, exceptional at communication and willing to go the extra mile for those that you love, be it family, friends, your partner, etc.
With that being said, it's important that you have time for me. I'm not expecting us to talk 24/7 but if you're always too busy to talk to me, this won't work. At some point, I'd like for us to also talk on the phone as our schedules permit, of course.
As I mentioned in the beginning of this post, please be from the USA/North America and willing to meet and get to know each other in person ASAP.
● WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ●
It's important to me that you're an active listener; what I mean is that you'll make an effort to listen to what I have to say and respond to it accordingly. If I tell you my thoughts on a matter or ask you a question or give you a compliment etc etc, please respond to it. It makes me feel so sad and small if I feel like my thoughts or opinions are not important/relevant.
I can tell pretty quickly if someone is genuinely interested in me or not. Like I said before, I notice everything lol.
I mentioned earlier how one of my love languages is words of affirmation. One of the ways I enjoy that is through compliments. I'm not looking for you to worship the ground I walk on, but being told "You look beautiful" or "When you do xyz, that makes me really happy" makes me feel SO seen and appreciated.
It's incredibly frustrating to send a picture of myself and get a lukewarm response in return. :(
Affection is also super important to me. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling, touching... all the cute couple shit. I want you to touch me, not in a pervy way, but in an affectionate way. I want to stroke your hair while I hold you close... little things like that make me incredibly happy.
Keep in mind, everything I want from you, I'll give to you in return. I'll always listen and acknowledge you, give you compliments, shower you in affection, plus whatever else makes you feel wanted and appreciated as a person and in a relationship.
● OUR DYNAMIC ●
I always want you to have a choice and be able to voice your opinion. I will never degrade or boss you around in general, but especially when it comes to your personal choices. I'm a switch that used to be a predominant sub and believe me, I've had doms tell me before, "I make the decision on what you wear, what to eat, who you hang out with, etc etc... because I'm your dom and what I say goes."
Some people may like that. More power to them. But I'm not like that. I want you to feel free to express yourself. If you want my opinion, I'll give it to you, of course. But my job is to build you up and support your decisions, no matter how small!
Again, I'm not looking for you to kiss my ass. I'd love for you to take the lead on most decisions (with my input, of course). But I want you to also have a "service" attitude; whether that's helping out with household chores or surprising me with a massage after work or giving me flowers "just because" or helping me paint my toenails lol... just to name some examples. The sky's the limit.
That extends to "the bedroom" as well. I want my pleasure to be just as important to you as yours is to me.
In short? I just want to feel doted on and taken care of. I want to be the most important person in your life and you be the most important person in my life. I want to make you feel special and praise you and tell you how much you mean to me. And I want the same in return. 💓
● "KINKS" ●
This is inevitably gonna come up at some point. I'll say when it comes to my "kinks" (if you want to call them that) I like:
Teasing, edging, telling you when you can cum and begging me for it (I believe it's called orgasm control/denial), moaning, praise, blindfolds, eye contact, body worshiping (you and me), breast worship, oral, fingering and using toys on you.
Been a little curious about pegging someone one day. We'd have to build up to it, of course, because I don't want to hurt you. If you're not into that, though, don't worry! It's definitely not a requirement.
Things I do NOT like (or hard limits) are:
Humiliation, degradation, anything that causes you or me physical, emotional and mental harm, blood, pee, scat, vomit, diapers, CNC, ageplay, raceplay, hitting, slapping, choking or anything else illegal, unethical or otherwise unloving.
● IN CONCLUSION... ●
If you read all of this, good job! Here's a cookie, hope you like chocolate chip. 🍪
Seriously, though, I can't name every little thing I want. Despite the length of this post, I'm not trying to play Build-A-Boy. I realize you have your own caveats and that's totally fine. Let's get to know each other and see what happens. All I ask for, again, is that you want a serious, longterm relationship and not view me as just some sort of "kink dispenser."
Chats or DMs are fine. When you send me a message, please include the following...
• Name or alias • Location • Age • Height, body type, hair cololength, eye color • Your interests/hobbies • Whether you're a sub or a switch • What you're looking for out of a relationship and something (or things) you really enjoyed about my post • A clear, SFW picture of yourself • Your current favorite song (so I know you actually read through all of this) • Whatever else you want to add to catch my attention. The more you can match my "detailed energy," the better.
I won't reply to those who ignore my preferences or the message requirements above. If you send me nudes/dick pics/sexting or FWB requests/rude messages, you will be blocked and reported.
Thank you so much for reading this, and I hope you have a good night!

• Dreamer

(P.S. I don't use Snap, Kik, Telegram, WhatsApp and whatever else. I use Discord and I only give my cell number out to people that I'm comfy with.)

Hello!
I am at an uncomfortable impasse with my landlord in Florida over signing a rights waiver.
My landlord scheduled a termite fumigation - tenting entire building for 3 days. I vacated the unit and accommodated all requests from the fumigator, such as removing food, unblocking windows, etc. However, I refused to sign a rights waiver from the fumigator. I vacated and they didn't inform me that they weren't fumigating until 12 hours after the time I was told to vacate.
My landlord either can't find or won't bother to find a fumigator who will fumigate without a signed rights waiver from all tenants in the building. I refuse to sign away my rights for nothing in return, especially when I've complied with Florida law and granted them access to the unit.
My lease expires in November, but for some complicated reasons, I need to stay in this specific apartment for 3 more months, after which I'm fine leaving.
Question 1: What can the landlord do to me at this point?
Question 2: I vacated and incurred expenses. They didn't perform the fumigation. Do I have any recourse?
Thank you!
Timeline:

• May 10th: Landlord informs us they will tent our duplex for termites on June 8th.
• May 31st: Landlord sends 3-page liability waiver from the fumigator, which indemnifies them from health issues, damage, to property, and has a laundry list of tasks we have to perform.
• June 1st: I respond stating that I will perform the tasks, grant access to the unit, and make all reasonable accommodations to the fumigator, but I am unwilling to sign the rights waiver. I note that I am sympathetic to their problem and am happy to explore alternative solutions.
• June 6th: I move all of my stuff out of the apartment and prepare the apartment for fumigation, rent storage, and move to alternative housing.
• June 7th: Just 22 hours before the tenting, landlord calls frantically trying to negotiate for me to sign the waiver. Offers two weeks free rent if I sign. I said I'll think about it. Hang up. Called them back at 5PM, left a message suggesting to just give me 3 weeks abatement and I'll just move out. I don't mind signing if I don't have to return and don't incur further costs.
• June 8th: They do not perform the tenting and do not inform me that they haven't. Neighbor texts me about it that evening, as I'm staying elsewhere.

Last email communication from the landlord:

• States "we legally cannot tent without your signature". Appears to be factually incorrect?
• My request for 3 weeks rent abatement/lease termination is "not doable". Appears to be a completely discretionary decision on their part?
• Marked my lease for non-renewal. I don't care about this.

I know it's immaterial, but I have written testimony and photos from the previous tenant that this termite infestation has existed since Summer 2022, that they moved out (paying an early-termination penalty) in frustration from lack of treatment. The landlord allowed both me and another tenant to move into the duplex last fall, knowing full well the infestation was active. The other tenant moved out in frustration 2 weeks ago, paying a penalty to cancel their lease. If I move out and pay a penalty to cancel my lease, this will be the 3rd early termination penalty they've collected over the same problem.

The 76th annual Tony Awards are set for Sunday, June 11, with plenty of musical performances, returning host Ariana DeBose, a new location venue — and no writers.
Airing live from the United Palace theater in New York City’s Washington Heights, the Broadway awards ceremony is scheduled for 8-11 p.m. ET/5-8 p.m. A live, 90-minute pre-show, The Tony Awards: Act One, hosted by Julianne Hough and Skylar Astin, begins at 6:30 p.m. ET/3:30 p.m. PT. The pre-show will be available for free on Pluto TV via smart TVs, streaming devices, mobile apps and online by going to Pluto TV and clicking on the “Pluto TV Celebrity” channel. No payment, registration or sign-in is required.

With the ongoing Writers Guild of America strike, the Tonys presentation this year will have no scripted elements (the WGA is also urging its members, whether nominated or not, not to attend). The WGA has agreed not to picket the event. Although the show is not expected to include the pre-written jokes, banter and introductions typical for awards ceremonies, the broadcast will feature performances from the casts of nominated best musicals and revivals including *Camelot, Into the Woods, & Juliet, Kimberly Akimbo, New York, New York, Parade, Shucked, Some Like It Hot* and *Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street.* 

Stuff like wrappers, empty chip bags, styrofoam cups, napkins.
Then you could throw it on the ground somewhere and other players could find it. They could blow around in the wind during weather events and collect in places and make big trash piles. Busy planets with lots of multiplayer could have landfills and junkyards worth of trash or if they’re water planets we could even make something like the Great Pacific Garbage Patch.
I think this would add a lot of realism to the game, since usually when you go places in real life you’re bound to find some litter. Find me one bus stop bench that not surrounded by cigarette butts. It’s how you know someone else has been there before you.
You find the trash they leave behind.
I truthfully believe this would make the game a lot better and I think all of us being able to leave trash all over the place, together, would really highlight the community aspect of the game by visualizing player-to-player interactions.
hello games pls

I am going to be receiving $130k in the fall from my fathers estate. I am currently employed (albeit underemployed) and make just enough to cover expenses. I have two kids, I rent. I don’t have an emergency fund, TFSA, RESP, RRSP, or pension. I’m 48. Kids are (13 and 14).
Current position: Income: $3900 net monthly
Expenses: -Rent: $2125 -Utilities: $325 avg/month (elect, gas, sewer, garbage, water) -Loan: $170 -Transportation: $200/month (gas, insurance) -Phones: $200 (for 3 phones) -Internet/cable: $175 -Groceries: $700 (I’m struggling hard here as this also includes household and hygiene, we utilize food bank and pantries.)
I’m educated and work in my field (have a masters degree). I’m underemployed right now due to caring for my special needs son (I can only work part time right now) but will be able to work full time in one year.
I want to make this money work for me in the most advantageous way for the longest amount of time.
Things that need to be taken care of: - I need a good used car (I currently use my ex husbands vehicle and he uses it as a control mechanism and I must get out from under that. - we all desperately need to see a dentist (we do not have health insurance) - pay off loan (balance is $12,586)
Other considerations: - any emergencies or costs are at the expense of not paying a bill for a month, I incur late fees, or we buy even less food/gas - Looking at downgrading phone plan and internet (cable is essentially free on this bundled plan) - I would love to buy a house/townhouse but I’m being quickly priced out in Calgary, I’m currently rebuilding my credit (640) and need more income to qualify. I estimate that I will need 3 years (2yrs of full time). I do not have any credit cards, was in collections but paid off 2 months ago and rebuilding. - my kids will most likely attend post secondary - there is no sense going after their father for child support as he is unemployed or working for cash and hasn’t filed taxes in 5 years. (He used to be a high earner but got fired in 2017).
Wants: new clothes for kids (thrift and mending is what I do now), I have never travelled with my kids, we need a new computer.
*Most important I want this money to last and/or make a difference. It’s not enough to do anything substantial and I’m unsure how to manage it.

The highly anticipated Champions League final is just a few hours away. English soccer club Manchester City will take on Italian football giant Inter Milan in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final at Atatürk Olympic Stadium in Istanbul, Turkey. It is scheduled to take place on June 10.
Are you looking for the UEFA Champions League final live stream for free? UCL final match this Saturday 10 June. Here are all the best ways to watch and stream live online from home.
🔴⬛👉Manchester City vs Internazionale Online
🔴⬛👉Manchester City vs Internazionale Online
Are you looking for the UEFA Champions League final live stream for free? UCL final match this Saturday 10 June. Here are all the best ways to watch and stream live online from home.
UCL Final! Here’s options for listening or watching Champions League final 2023 live streaming for free on Reddit, Crackstreams, including where to watch Man City vs. Inter Milan online. The highly-awaited match in a years-long rivalry is happening In Istanbul. The Champions League final 2023 is going to be one of the biggest events of 2023, but as a PPV, it’s airing on CBS, so now’s the time to sign up. Also you can watch the Champions League final 2023 with Paramount.
The highly anticipated Champions League final is just a few hours away. English soccer club Manchester City will take on Italian football giant Inter Milan in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final at Atatürk Olympic Stadium in Istanbul, Turkey. It is scheduled to take place on June 10.
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Man City are hoping for their first ever UCL title after falling at the final hurdle two years ago against Chelsea. The Sky Blues have been dominant in England this year, winning the Premier League title and FA Cup.
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They will take on an Inter setup that was not anywhere as formidable in their own domestic league, finishing in third place in Serie A. Nevertheless, the Nerazzurri added a couple of domestic trophies to their collection as well this year, securing the Coppa Italia and Supercoppa Italiana.
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Manchester City is yet to win the Champions League but the English champions are firm favourites against three-time champions Inter Milan. However, the Italian giant has players to cause an upset in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final. While Manchester City defeated 14-time winners Real Madrid in the UEFA Champions League semi-final, Inter Milan emerged winners against city rival and 7-time winner AC Milan
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Headed into the final game, Pep Guardiola and the rest of Man City will certainly have their eyes on one prize in particular: an historic treble. The only thing standing in between Man City and their coveted treble crown is Inter Milan, one of the few European teams with a treble crown of their own. Looking to watch all the football action inside Istanbul’s Atatürk stadium this weekend?
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If you're looking for help finding a free Champions League final live stream this weekend, you're in the right place. We've been busy testing various international and local options to help you watch Man City vs. Inter Milan online without signing up for yet another streaming service. Here’s what you need to know about where and how to watch the 2023 Champions League final: Manchester City vs Inter Milan Live Stream for Free.hdq

The highly anticipated Champions League final is just a few hours away. English soccer club Manchester City will take on Italian football giant Inter Milan in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final at Atatürk Olympic Stadium in Istanbul, Turkey. It is scheduled to take place on June 10.
Are you looking for the UEFA Champions League final live stream for free? UCL final match this Saturday 10 June. Here are all the best ways to watch and stream live online from home.
🔴⬛👉Manchester City vs Internazionale Online
🔴⬛👉Manchester City vs Internazionale Online
Are you looking for the UEFA Champions League final live stream for free? UCL final match this Saturday 10 June. Here are all the best ways to watch and stream live online from home.
UCL Final! Here’s options for listening or watching Champions League final 2023 live streaming for free on Reddit, Crackstreams, including where to watch Man City vs. Inter Milan online. The highly-awaited match in a years-long rivalry is happening In Istanbul. The Champions League final 2023 is going to be one of the biggest events of 2023, but as a PPV, it’s airing on CBS, so now’s the time to sign up. Also you can watch the Champions League final 2023 with Paramount.
The highly anticipated Champions League final is just a few hours away. English soccer club Manchester City will take on Italian football giant Inter Milan in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final at Atatürk Olympic Stadium in Istanbul, Turkey. It is scheduled to take place on June 10.
​
Man City are hoping for their first ever UCL title after falling at the final hurdle two years ago against Chelsea. The Sky Blues have been dominant in England this year, winning the Premier League title and FA Cup.
​
They will take on an Inter setup that was not anywhere as formidable in their own domestic league, finishing in third place in Serie A. Nevertheless, the Nerazzurri added a couple of domestic trophies to their collection as well this year, securing the Coppa Italia and Supercoppa Italiana.
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Manchester City is yet to win the Champions League but the English champions are firm favourites against three-time champions Inter Milan. However, the Italian giant has players to cause an upset in the 2023 UEFA Champions League final. While Manchester City defeated 14-time winners Real Madrid in the UEFA Champions League semi-final, Inter Milan emerged winners against city rival and 7-time winner AC Milan
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Headed into the final game, Pep Guardiola and the rest of Man City will certainly have their eyes on one prize in particular: an historic treble. The only thing standing in between Man City and their coveted treble crown is Inter Milan, one of the few European teams with a treble crown of their own. Looking to watch all the football action inside Istanbul’s Atatürk stadium this weekend?
​
If you're looking for help finding a free Champions League final live stream this weekend, you're in the right place. We've been busy testing various international and local options to help you watch Man City vs. Inter Milan online without signing up for yet another streaming service. Here’s what you need to know about where and how to watch the 2023 Champions League final: Manchester City vs Inter Milan Live Stream for Free.## vvvvvwwww

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Best Service Heating & Cooling	Part-time Customer Service Rep	Whitehall
Best Service Heating & Cooling	HVAC Technician	Whitehall
American Family Insurance	Senior Security Consultant	Akron
Ohio University	Assistant Director, Access and Inclusion and Senior Assistant Director, Access and Inclusion	Athens
Ohio University	Director of Diversity Affairs	Athens
Ohio University	Director of Diversity Equity & Inclusion	Athens
Beckett Springs	Outpatient Registered Nurse	Camp Dennison
VineBrook Homes, LLC	Director, Accounts Payable & Utilities	Catawba
Clean Harbors	Cleanpack Chemist	Cleveland
Beckett Springs	Registered Nurse (RN)	Cleves
Zipline Logistics LLC	Operations Associate	Columbus
Green Bay Packaging, Inc.	Maintenance Technician - Electrical	Cuba
VineBrook Homes, LLC	Director, Accounts Payable & Utilities	Dayton
Kettering Health Network	CMA	Dayton
ProMedica	LPN	Defiance
ProMedica	Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN)	Defiance
Quantum Health	Digital Accessibility Lead	Dublin
VineBrook Homes, LLC	Director, Accounts Payable & Utilities	Englewood
ProMedica	Registered Nurse (RN)	Fostoria
ProMedica	RN	Fostoria
Valley View Healthcare Center	Scheduling Coordinator - RN/LPN/STNA	Fremont
L3Harris Technologies	Specialist, Quality Engineering	Goshen
Beckett Springs	Registered Nurse (RN)	Harrison
L3Harris Technologies	Specialist, Quality Engineering	Harrison
Beckett Springs	Outpatient Registered Nurse	Harrison

Hey guys, here are some recent job openings in oh. Feel free to comment here or send me a private message if you have any questions, I'm at the community's disposal! If you encounter any problems with any of these job openings please let me know that I will modify the table accordingly. Thanks!

Meet Scavclapper, an Ancient-ranked Dota 2 player ready to level up his game. With a burning desire to take his skills to new heights, he's on the lookout for a dedicated team to play with regularly. Armed with extensive knowledge of the game's mechanics, impeccable decision-making, and a hunger for success, Scavclapper is the ideal teammate to conquer the competitive Dota 2 landscape. Join forces with him and soar to victory!
- ChatGPT, 2023
Looking for a competitive team to play with on a regular schedule, I'm ready to improve and have fun. I'm a communicative player, and you can usually find me playing a somewhat more playmaker style hero.
Add me so we can talk!
Scavclapper#1792 or send me a message through discord

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Hi MM!
The Hoshizora will have the final restock for extras on June 13, 2023 at 12:00PM Hawaii Standard Time! (Page will go public) https://hnlkb.com/products/extras-hoshizora
The pricing for Hoshizora extras will be as follows:
A stock - $399.99
B stock - $349.99 https://imgur.com/a/9s3bhYt
C stock - $249.99 https://imgur.com/a/xQBk77s
For Details on grading and grade availability please join the discords mentioned above.
50 Units will be available for this drop

Hoshizora

- 60% WinKey/WKL
- 6063 Aluminum
- Available in Red, Lilac, Navy, ePink, and eBlack
- 18.5mm Front Height
- Top and Gummy o-ring (50A Nitrile included) Compatability
- Chrome Plated Stainless Steel weight and accent piece
- H60 PCB + daughterboard
- Aluminum plate included (Carbon Fiber and Polycarbonate as add-ons)
- HNLKB 60% Carrying case + microfiber cloth included
- Unit Identity Authorization Card
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Ohana65

Due to some delays and logistical issues the Ohana65 GB is being extended till July 12, 2023!
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Item Restocks

We have restocked a handfull of items in the accessory section of our store front
https://hnlkb.com/collections/accessories

Item	Price
hiney H60 Solder PCB	$24.99
hiney JST Cable + Daughterboard	$4.99
HNLKB 60% Carrying Case	$14.99

Alright so a frequent topic on here is the concept of the mental load of maintaining a home that is stocked, on a schedule, and the management of a never ending to-do list of caregiving. For ourselves and our entire household needs. Whether it’s the needs of our significant other, any kids in the home, any parents staying with us and especially.. our animals.
I’m in my early thirties and over the past decade, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend among the men I dated, socialized with or was in long term live-in relationships with, regarding their dog ownership. Now I live in a place where it seems like everyone owns a dog. There’s easy access to outdoor activities of varying intensity, a slew of dog parks to take your dog to. With a lot of walkable neighborhoods too, it’s not as dense as a place like NYC or Chicago so there’s plenty of homes and rental homes with yards these guys have dogs in.
And I noticed despite the fact that they’d all insist their dog was their best friend and their priority, and even would go as far to say they “treat their dog better than they treated the women they date”.. I saw time and time again that they didn’t have a handle on even the slightest bits of responsibility of owning a dog.
Not one had a real handle on their animals needs whatsoever. Couldn’t tell you when the dog was last taken to the vet. They couldn’t tell you when it was last groomed, or had its nails trimmed. Never bathed or brushed their shedding dogs at home claiming “they didn’t like it” when it’s a snow breed panting in the heat blowing out it’s coat. Would let their dogs nails get so long that the dog was visibly uncomfortable walking on their hardwood floors.
Didn’t have the dog on a daily walking or feeding schedule, just would let them out in the yard or feed them when they felt like it. Didn’t think any of that was important. Would let their dog run out of food and it wouldn’t occur to them to order more until they were truly out and feed them human food to varying degrees of success. Wouldn’t be paying attention to their water bowl levels or keep food garbage managed so the poor thing doesn’t get into something that’ll make it sick. Or coming home to a 5-8 year old dog that is still having accidents in the house because the owner isn’t paying mind or attention to when the dog was last let out or walked before leaving for an evening.
And don’t even get me started on training. “Oh he’s chill he’s just saying hey” as the dog jumps on me and claws breaking skin in 18 inch lines down both legs from the over grown nails. Can’t get the dog to sit and stay for even a second. Can’t get the dog to calmly get on a leash. Brushes off the dogs leash aggression and visible discomfort being out and about. Brushed off the dog snapping or biting strangers.
If it wasn’t like 4-5 different guys who were in their twenties and thirties insisting they were the best dog dad ever, I’d hold my tongue. But I really look back at this as such a significant moment when I realized I would never be able to get one of these men to carry the mental load of ANYTHING when they were actively unable to grasp the need to with the care of another living being already. And that they didn’t see anything wrong with this as it was, that they’d never see anything wrong with the rest of their lack of holding one iota of the mental load of sharing a home together.
Rant over: share your experiences watching grown men thinking they’ve got a handle on a major life responsibility and mental load on something that they absolutely do not.

The time has come to try to unload my entire collection, I've been selling on here for a few years and am an experienced seller and I would love to get these awesome records to some people who will love and appreciate them! Everything is VG+ and well cared for. I will give you a better price for the more you buy! $5 shipping on all orders, US only.
Adventures- Adventures 7"-Pale Yellow-$10
Adventures-Clear My Head With You-Blue-$10
Adventures/Pity Sex Split-Red W/ Blue Color in Color-$10
Adventures/Run Forever Split-Red/ Light Blue-$10
Aeon Station-Observatory-Blue-$15
Alkaline Trio- Maybe I'll Catch Fire-Transparent Orange-$30
American Pleasure Club- A Whole Fucking Lifetime Of This-Purple/Blue-$30
Antarctigo Vespucci- Essential Antarctigo Vespucci Vol.1- Gold-$15
The Appleseed Cast- Low Level Owl: Vol 1 + 2-Jungle Swirl-$50
Archers Of Loaf- Icky Mettle-Blue-$25
Archers Of Loaf-White Trash Heroes- White-$25
Atmosphere- Overcast EP-$14
Balance and Composure-The Things We Think We're Missing-Yellow/Black Haze-$60
Balance and Composure- Light We Made-Flesh- $30
Basement-I Wish I Could Stay Here-Gold-$18
Beach Slang- A Loud Bash Of Teenage Feelings-Blue Starburst-$10
Beach Slang- The Deadbeat Bang Of Heartbeat City- Red-$10
Beach Slang- Cheap Thrills On A Dead End Street- Orange-$15
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Beach Slang- Skyway/Old Orchard Beach-$20
Beach Slang- Who Would Ever Want Anything So Broken?-$10
The Beatles- Abbey Road- $20
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Bedhead-Transaction De Novo-$30
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Big Bite-Big Bite-$15
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Black Country New Road-Ants From Up There-Deluxe Edition-$40
Blonde Redhead- Fake Can Be Just As Good-$14
Boris- Akum No Uta- $20
David Bowie- Space Oddity- $25
David Bowie-Hunky Dory-$30
David Bowie- Ziggy Stardust And The Spiders From Mars-$30
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David Bowie-Lodger- $25
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Broken Social Scene- Broken Social Scene-Clear W/ Red-$50
Bugg- Bugg-Green- $30
Coma Cinema- Loss Memory- $50
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Converge- All We Love We Leave Behind- Pink/Purple Mix-$50
Mat Cothran- My First Love Mends My Final Days-$40
Crash Of Rhinos-Knots-$30
Cymbals Eat Guitars- Why There Are Mountains- $15
Cymbals Eat Guitars- Pretty Years-Smoke-$25
Daniel Johnston- Fun- $15
Daylight- Dispirit-Yellow Starburst-$20
Daylight- Run For Cover Acoustic Series #3- $10
Deafheaven- New Bermuda-$15
Deafheaven- Sunbather-Yellow/Pink-$25
Kevin Devine-Brothers Blood-$20
Kevin Devine- Make The Clocks Move-Clear Brown- $50
Kevin Devine- Instigator- Red-$15
Kevin Devine- Bubblegum- Clear-$15
DIIV-Oshin-Purple-$30
DIIV- Is The Is Are- Captured Tracks Special Edition- $30
Dinosaur Jr.- Bug- $15
Dinosaur Jr. - Farm- $25
The Districts- Telephone-$15
Dogleg- Melee- Red W/ Blue and White Splatter-$70
Donovan Wolfington- How To Treat The Ones You Love-Clear- $15
Donovan Wolfington- Waves- Pink-$15
Drug Church- Cheer-Red in Beer- $70
Drug Church- Drug Church 7"- White No Sleep Subscription- $20
Drug Church- Party at Dead Man's 7"- $10
Drug Church- Paul Walker-Orange- $40
Drug Church- Swell- Clear W/ Green Haze- $25
Elliott Smith- Alternate Versions From EitheOr 7"- $10
Elliott Smith - EitheOr-$50
Elliott Smith-Elliott Smith-$35
Elliott Smith- Elliott Smith Alternate Versions- $20
Elliott Smith- New Moon-$25
Elliott Smith- Pretty (Ugly Before) 7"- Blue/White-$15
Elliott Smith-XO-Hazel Black Smoke- $100
Elvis Depressedly- Depressedelica-Black and White Galaxy-$25
Elvis Depressedly- Holo Pleasures/ California Dreamin'-Baby Blue in Bone-$20
Elvis Depressedly- New Alhambra-Purple Starburst-$15
Empire! Empire!-What It Takes To Move Forward- Sea Blue/Bone Red/ Bone-$100
Father John Misty- Fear Fun-$15
The Fall Of Troy- Doppelganger-$50
Field Medic-Fade Into The Dawn-Oxblood In Clear- $20
Field Medic-Floral Prince- Red- $40
Fucked Up- David Comes To Life - Yellow- $15
Fucked Up- Year Of The Horse- Gold-$15
Girls- Father, Son, Holy Ghost-$50
Gouge Away- Burnt Sugar-$20
Gulch- Impenetrable Cerebral Fortress- Cyan & Mustard Pinwheel w/ Purple Splatter-$50
Happy Diving- Electric Soul Unity- $20
Hot Snakes-Suicide Invoice-Yellow-$15
Hot Snakes- Audit In Progress-Pink-$15
The Hotelier- Goodness- Fawn & Field-$30
Interpol- Turn On The Bright Lights- 10th Anniversary Edition-$80
Jim James- Regions of Light And Sound Of God- Autographed Test Pressing- $150
Jay Reatard- Matador Singles '08-$15
Julia Brown- An Abundance Of Strawberries- Red- $15
Julia Brown- Library b/w I Wanna Be A Witch 7"- $25
King Tuff- The Other- Rainbow Marble- $15
Knot- Knot- Red-$15
Leatherface-Horsebox- $40
Colonel Les Claypool's Fearless Flying Frog Brigade- Live Frogs- Green- $40
Manchester Orchestra- A Black Mile To The Surface- Clear W/ Black Smoke- $80
Manchester Orchestra - Cope- $15
Margot & The Nuclear So & So's- Not Animal- Pink- $100
The Mars Volta- Deloused in The Comatorium-Sealed 2021 Repress- $40
The Mars Volta- Frances The Mute-Sealed 2021 Repress- $50
Melvins- Eggnog + Lice-All- $20-SOLD
Melvins- Gluey Porch Treatments- Green-$15-SOLD
Melvins- Hostile Ambient Takeover-Pink- $15
Melvins- Nude With Boots- Red-$15
The Menzingers- Chamberlain Waits- $15
The Menzingers- After The Party- Red-$40
The Menzingers- On The Impossible Past-Summer Sky Wave -$40
Mil-Spec- World House-$15
Modern Baseball Holy Ghost- Yellow- $15
Modern Baseball- Sports- Clear-$40
Thelonious Monk-Underground- 2014 ORG Pressing /2000- $50
Night School- Blush- Yellow- $15
Night School - Disappear Here- $12
Old Gray- An Autobiography- Half Pink/ Half Yellow-$60
The Orwells- Disgraceland- $20
The Orwells- Terrible Human Beings- $20
Ovlov-Am- Clear-$50
Ovlov-Tru-$30
Ovlov- Buds- Clear-$30
Ovlov- Greatest Hits Vol.II- $20
Parquet Courts- Content Nausea- $40
Parquet Courts- Light Up Gold- Pink- $30
Parquet Courts- Sunbathing Animal -W/ 7"- $40
Parquet Courts- Wide Awake! - Blue- $50
Pedro The Lion- Control- Yellow- $15
Posture & The Grizzly- I Am Satan- Green/ Milky clear split W/ Splatter- $50
Primus- Frizzle Fry- $Yellow- $45
Primus- Sailing The Seas Of Cheese- $35
The Residents- Eskimo- Clear W Black Swirl- $20
The Residents-Meet The Residents- Lime Green- $30
Rival Schools- United By Fate-$50
Saba- Care For Me-VMP- $40
SALEM-King Knight-Clear w/ Purple Splatter-$50
The Sidekicks- Awkward Breeds- Copper-$50
Sleep- Dopesmoker- Green hazy Translucent-$40
Slowdive- Slowdive- Silver-$20
Tiny Moving Parts- Pleasant Living- Red/ Orange- $40
Told Slant- Still Water- White- $30
Touche Amore- Parting The Sea Between Brightness and Me- Clear Family & Friends Pressing- $80
Turning Point- 1988-1991- Yellow- $50
Turnover- Peripheral Vision- Milky Clea Sea Blue- $50
Valium Aggelein- Silver in Clear-$50
Wavves- Afraid Of Heights- Purple-$70
Wavves- V- Purple- $50
Whirr- Around- Clear w Black Splater W/ Die Cut cover- $$35
Whirr- Distressor EP- Grey W/ Blue & White Splatter- $35
Whirr-Pipe Dreams Redux- Blue-$50
Whirr-Feels Like You- Purple Smoke $250
Yndi Halda- Enjoy Eternal Bliss- Random Color- $40

TL;DR: Host wrote "Bad guest" without elaborating. I replied immediately with some critiques that I had not mentioned in my (positive) review of their place.
LONG STORY: This is my first negative host review. I only spoke to him on the app, never met him. He has mostly positive reviews.
But host didn't provide us basic information like how to open the outside gate, how to set up the sofabed, or where the outside garbage bins were. When I asked, he said the cleaner (who welcomed us) should've told me.
The apartment was dusty and there was mold in the washing machine drawer. Which surprised me, because he wrote an angry reply to a previous guest, who gave him a glowing review but apparently didn't give a 5* rating for cleanliness. He said he takes hygiene extremely serious.
The cleaner came in 5 minutes before my check-out. I was still cleaning up after myself (collecting dirty towels and finishing the dishes). I apologized and said I'll be gone in 10 minutes. I left 5 minutes after check-out time. The cleaner was sighing, rolling his eyes and mumbling to himself.
Despite everything, I wrote a positive review and gave a 5* rating. I did not mention the lack of instructions, the dirt and the check-out. Why? I don't know. I'm not a confrontational person and I guess I got a little scared after seeing his angry reply to the other guest.
So when I saw my negative review, I was pissed. I replied immediately and asked him if he could elaborate. I did apologize again for checking out late, but that i wanted to make sure i cleaned up after myself. I also said that when I requested something (a fan because of the heat, or the possibility to store my luggage after check out) and he declined, I didn't complain or make a fuss (which is what an entitled a.k.a. "bad" guest would do).
I tried to see if he leaves negative reviews on all his guests, but it's just me and one other guy (not the one that pissed him off. But someone who apparently left the apartment a mess, which I did not). So... what the fuck?
Now I'm scared he's gonna vilify me or make up things by replying to my review (the one on his listing). I know I can't reply to that, so I don't even want to check my airbnb app anymore.
I just re-read my reply to the host review and you can clearly see that I'm very upset. Is this a bad look for me? I haven't used airbnb very much so I only have a few reviews.

It's Saturday and we have a great afternoon and evening of baseball action scheduled for fans today. After a long week at work, we like nothing better than to sit down with some friends and enjoy a cold beer and some baseball. With 15 games on the agenda there is something for everyone to enjoy.
All games and channels are available, plus much more great content, today on Ultimate Media IPTV. With a subscription from www.ultimatemedia.store/packages all games can be watched live and on our replay channels so you never have to miss a game. Visit today and choose the best IPTV subscription for you.
1.10pm ET - Arizona Diamondbacks v Detroit Tigers at Comerica Park, Detroit, Michigan. This game is being broacast on BSAZ, BSDET and MLBN.
2.10pm ET - Miami Marlins v Chicago White Sox at Guaranteed Rate Field, Chicago, Illinois. This game is being broadcast on BSFL, NBCSCH and MLBN.
2.15pm ET - Cincinatti Reds v St. Louis Cardinals at Busch Stadium, St. Louis, Missouri. This game is being broadcast on BSOH and BSMW.
3.07pm ET - Minnesota Twins v Toronto Blue Jays at Rogers Centre, Toronto, Ontario. This game is being broadcast on BSNO and SNET.
3.10pm ET - San Diego Padres v Colorado Rockies at Coors Field, Denver, Colorado. This game is being broadcast on SDPA and ATTR.
4.05pm ET - Kansas City Royals v Baltimore Orioles at Oriole Park at Camden Yards, Baltimore, Maryland. This game is being broadcast on BSKC and MSN2.
4.05pm ET - New York Mets v Pittsburgh Pirates at PNC Park, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on SNY and ATTP.
4.05pm ET - Los Angeles Dodgers v Philadelphia Phillies at Citizens Bank Park, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on NBCSP and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Texas Rangers v Tampa Bay Rays at Tropicana Field, St. Petersburg, Florida. This game is being broadcast on BSSW, BSSUN and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Washington Nationals v Atlanta Braves at Truist Park, Atlanta, Georgia. This game is being broadcast on MASN and BSSE.
4.10pm ET - Oakland Athletics v Milwaukee Brewers at American Family Field, Milwaukee, Wisconsin. This game is being broadcast on NBCSBA and BSWI.
6.10pm ET - Houston Astros v Cleveland Guardians at Progressive Field, Cleveland, Ohio. This game is being broadcast on ATTH and BSGL.
7.35pm ET - Chicago Cubs v San Francisco Giants at Oracle Park, San Francisco, California. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
7.35pm ET - Boston Red Sox v New York Yankees at Yankee Stadium, Bronx, New York. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
10.07pm ET - Seattle Mariners v Los Angeles Angels at Angel Stadium, Anaheim, California. This game is being broadcast on RSNW, BSW and MLBN.

It's Saturday and we have a great afternoon and evening of baseball action scheduled for fans today. After a long week at work, we like nothing better than to sit down with some friends and enjoy a cold beer and some baseball. With 15 games on the agenda there is something for everyone to enjoy.
All games and channels are available, plus much more great content, today on Ultimate Media IPTV. With a subscription from www.ultimatemedia.store/packages all games can be watched live and on our replay channels so you never have to miss a game. Visit today and choose the best IPTV subscription for you.
1.10pm ET - Arizona Diamondbacks v Detroit Tigers at Comerica Park, Detroit, Michigan. This game is being broacast on BSAZ, BSDET and MLBN.
2.10pm ET - Miami Marlins v Chicago White Sox at Guaranteed Rate Field, Chicago, Illinois. This game is being broadcast on BSFL, NBCSCH and MLBN.
2.15pm ET - Cincinatti Reds v St. Louis Cardinals at Busch Stadium, St. Louis, Missouri. This game is being broadcast on BSOH and BSMW.
3.07pm ET - Minnesota Twins v Toronto Blue Jays at Rogers Centre, Toronto, Ontario. This game is being broadcast on BSNO and SNET.
3.10pm ET - San Diego Padres v Colorado Rockies at Coors Field, Denver, Colorado. This game is being broadcast on SDPA and ATTR.
4.05pm ET - Kansas City Royals v Baltimore Orioles at Oriole Park at Camden Yards, Baltimore, Maryland. This game is being broadcast on BSKC and MSN2.
4.05pm ET - New York Mets v Pittsburgh Pirates at PNC Park, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on SNY and ATTP.
4.05pm ET - Los Angeles Dodgers v Philadelphia Phillies at Citizens Bank Park, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on NBCSP and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Texas Rangers v Tampa Bay Rays at Tropicana Field, St. Petersburg, Florida. This game is being broadcast on BSSW, BSSUN and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Washington Nationals v Atlanta Braves at Truist Park, Atlanta, Georgia. This game is being broadcast on MASN and BSSE.
4.10pm ET - Oakland Athletics v Milwaukee Brewers at American Family Field, Milwaukee, Wisconsin. This game is being broadcast on NBCSBA and BSWI.
6.10pm ET - Houston Astros v Cleveland Guardians at Progressive Field, Cleveland, Ohio. This game is being broadcast on ATTH and BSGL.
7.35pm ET - Chicago Cubs v San Francisco Giants at Oracle Park, San Francisco, California. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
7.35pm ET - Boston Red Sox v New York Yankees at Yankee Stadium, Bronx, New York. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
10.07pm ET - Seattle Mariners v Los Angeles Angels at Angel Stadium, Anaheim, California. This game is being broadcast on RSNW, BSW and MLBN.

It's Saturday and we have a great afternoon and evening of baseball action scheduled for fans today. After a long week at work, we like nothing better than to sit down with some friends and enjoy a cold beer and some baseball. With 15 games on the agenda there is something for everyone to enjoy.
All games and channels are available, plus much more great content, today on Ultimate Media IPTV. With a subscription from www.ultimatemedia.store/packages all games can be watched live and on our replay channels so you never have to miss a game. Visit today and choose the best IPTV subscription for you.
1.10pm ET - Arizona Diamondbacks v Detroit Tigers at Comerica Park, Detroit, Michigan. This game is being broacast on BSAZ, BSDET and MLBN.
2.10pm ET - Miami Marlins v Chicago White Sox at Guaranteed Rate Field, Chicago, Illinois. This game is being broadcast on BSFL, NBCSCH and MLBN.
2.15pm ET - Cincinatti Reds v St. Louis Cardinals at Busch Stadium, St. Louis, Missouri. This game is being broadcast on BSOH and BSMW.
3.07pm ET - Minnesota Twins v Toronto Blue Jays at Rogers Centre, Toronto, Ontario. This game is being broadcast on BSNO and SNET.
3.10pm ET - San Diego Padres v Colorado Rockies at Coors Field, Denver, Colorado. This game is being broadcast on SDPA and ATTR.
4.05pm ET - Kansas City Royals v Baltimore Orioles at Oriole Park at Camden Yards, Baltimore, Maryland. This game is being broadcast on BSKC and MSN2.
4.05pm ET - New York Mets v Pittsburgh Pirates at PNC Park, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on SNY and ATTP.
4.05pm ET - Los Angeles Dodgers v Philadelphia Phillies at Citizens Bank Park, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. This game is being broadcast on NBCSP and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Texas Rangers v Tampa Bay Rays at Tropicana Field, St. Petersburg, Florida. This game is being broadcast on BSSW, BSSUN and MLBN.
4.10pm ET - Washington Nationals v Atlanta Braves at Truist Park, Atlanta, Georgia. This game is being broadcast on MASN and BSSE.
4.10pm ET - Oakland Athletics v Milwaukee Brewers at American Family Field, Milwaukee, Wisconsin. This game is being broadcast on NBCSBA and BSWI.
6.10pm ET - Houston Astros v Cleveland Guardians at Progressive Field, Cleveland, Ohio. This game is being broadcast on ATTH and BSGL.
7.35pm ET - Chicago Cubs v San Francisco Giants at Oracle Park, San Francisco, California. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
7.35pm ET - Boston Red Sox v New York Yankees at Yankee Stadium, Bronx, New York. This game is being broadcast on FOX.
10.07pm ET - Seattle Mariners v Los Angeles Angels at Angel Stadium, Anaheim, California. This game is being broadcast on RSNW, BSW and MLBN.

So I am scheduled for my hysterectomy in 2 weeks and I spoke to my husband and he said that he was holding on to a false hope that I could get pregnant
But we have agreed on something else. We spoke to my sister and she agreed to carry our baby (ours being technically hers and my husbands) through Artificial insemenation using her eggs my husband apologised for what he said and how he treated me and that he cares more about my life than having bio kids with me and we also found a new little cat that we are thinking of adopting from my friend whose cat had kittens and they have 1 brown English shorthair who we will be going to collect on Friday so all is good in the house