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OldSchoolCool: History's cool kids, looking fantastic

2012.04.21 22:38 Apaz OldSchoolCool: History's cool kids, looking fantastic

/OldSchoolCool **History's cool kids, looking fantastic!** A pictorial and video celebration of history's coolest kids, everything from beatniks to bikers, mods to rude boys, hippies to ravers. And everything in between. If you've found a photo, or a photo essay, of people from the past looking fantastic, here's the place to share it.

2019.10.05 21:05 byPaz Fall Guys

The community-run and developer-supported subreddit dedicated to Fall Guys – a video game developed by Mediatonic Games which flings hordes of contestants together online in a mad dash through round after round of escalating chaos until one victor remains. Available on PC, PlayStation, Xbox and Nintendo Switch. – Subreddit icon designed by Thegr8Klink

2012.03.08 23:42 SmellsLikeUpfoo The Way We Were

What was **normal everyday life** like for people living 50, 100, or more years ago? Featuring old photos, scanned documents, articles, and personal anecdotes that offer a glimpse into the past.

2023.06.10 19:30 JoaquinRevello Advice From UPenn Wharton Student on the Last Few Months of University Apps

As a current UPenn Wharton dual degree engineering student, I am here to share an insight I’ve picked up over my HS years creating my ED app that has helped me and other students navigate the last few months of the high-stress period in college applications.
It's the following two words: "Be ruthless."
What does it mean to be ruthless in this context? It comes down to your ability to say 'No' to things that don't matter and instead focus your time and energy on the things that do. I like Steve Jobs's quotes, "Deciding what not to do is just as important as deciding what to do" and, "People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all. It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that there are."
In the months leading up to university applications, you will be swamped with assignments, tests, application forms, extracurriculars, and more. It's crucial to identify what among these is truly important and will contribute the most to your uni app success.
From my observations, I (and other students I know) made the mistake of trying to do everything. Instead, identify the one to three tasks per day that yield the most results and prioritize THAT. Time and attention are your most valuable resources, and how you utilize them in these crucial months can make or break your college applications.
For instance, you might have some extracurricular activities that, despite the time and effort you put into them, do not contribute to your application. Stop doing these. Put all your time and effort into the tasks that the university admissions officer will notice and appreciate. Typically these are also easy tasks (e.g. going to a Science club meeting, with this meeting having no impact on how your AO reviews and looks at your app). Instead, focus on the hard but necessary tasks.
Say 'No' to solicitations on your time that do not add value to your goals.
However, this doesn't mean you should never rest or explore your hobbies (this is high school). Rest and recovery are essential for high performance. All I'm saying is to be careful about what you say 'Yes' to and what you say 'No' to. And remember, once you get into your preferred university, you'll have plenty of time to enjoy all the things you may have "missed out on" (if you could even call it that).
In conclusion, stay ruthless with your time, priorities, and what you choose to say 'Yes' and 'No' to. Focus on saying 'No' to unimportant things and that will give you the time to do the important things. That's the difference between successful and unsuccessful students.
So, be ruthless, stay productive, and good luck with your college applications. Let me know if you have any Qs, I'm happy to help.
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2023.06.10 19:30 ADAMKOVICSLOVECHILD From Sunday 11th June r/insanepeoplefacebook will be going dark indefinitely

This is mostly copied from iPhone because I am shit at doing this. PS fuck spez.
Hi everyone,
From 11th June insanepeoplefacebook will shut off posting and enter ‘Restricted’ mode. This will mean no more posts will be coming through for the next couple days, until Reddit decide to revert their stance. Our decision to bring forward the blackout is a result of the actions of the Reddit CEO as well as an abysmal AMA that did little to answer our questions or concerns.
The situation
As you may have noticed over the past week, there has been a lot of discussion surrounding Reddit’s recent policy change to charge access to its API. These changes effectively kill third-party apps such as Apollo, Reddit is Fun and many others due to the exorbitant amount Reddit is asking from them to continue access to their API - with these changes threatening to cost apps such as Apollo an upwards of $20 million a year to keep running as is. These prices place an enormous financial burden on these third-party developers, making it unfeasible to continue operations. This has resulted in a number of apps announcing their plans to shut down, including Apollo.
With these apps shutting down, it also makes our jobs as Moderators that much harder. Many of us mods have had to rely on these third-party applications in order to effectively do our job, simply because the official Reddit app doesn’t have the sufficient tools that these other apps offer. This will lead to many regular users having a subpar experience due to Moderators not having the tools to manage their communities well enough.
These changes also have drastic effects on those that need to use those third-party apps for accessibility reasons, due to the official app, nor new Reddit, providing proper levels of accessibility for those that need it. It’s one step closer to making Reddit totally inaccessible to many users.
The Reddit CEO’s recent antics
We also have concerns that Reddit’s very own CEO is comfortable and willing enough to lie, twist facts and gaslight the userbase into being on ‘their’ side in way of accusing Apollo’s developer, Christian, of blackmail and threatening Reddit. And, when proven to be lying through audio recordings, deciding to double down on villainizing said developer in his most recent ‘AMA’.
As moderators and users, this kind of behaviour erodes our trust in the company’s leadership and undermines our confidence in any statements or actions they take. The AMA today was also abysmal enough to the point we wanted to bring our blackout forward from June 12th. It failed to answer any of our questions or concerns.
If you want further context on this particular issue, please read Christian’s (Apollo Dev) post here: https://www.reddit.com/apolloapp/comments/144f6xm/apollo_will_close_down_on_june_30th_reddits/
So, how long is this blackout going to last?
It’s tough to say. It’s something that we’ve gone back and forth on internally because we need to weigh up various factors when making a decision like locking down a subreddit with 3.8 million subscribers and thousands of daily active users. It isn’t as simple as some have suggested it to be.
We also cannot privatise the subreddit indefinitely. We just can’t. At the end of the day Admins have made it clear on numerous occasions that attempting to do so will result in intervention. In what way? We aren’t entirely sure, and this is why we will be reviewing our stance on a daily basis. Reddit, at the end of the day, is a business first and foremost. It is defined by the existence of our communities. Without a clear path to end the protest, Reddit must find a solution to end it themselves. The longer the blackout drags on, and and the harder we push them, the more likely it is that they’ll consider playing hard ball and going with the “Nuclear” option of removing Mod Teams and replacing them with those that they know will be compliant. While this option runs the risk of destroying communities due to replacements who don’t actually understand the community they’re running, it’s likely to be a better option for Reddit compared to having half their website shut down.
We will try our best to keep everyone updated on our decision making.
For those curious, here were some numbers on those participating in the blackout (numbers may be outdated, data was from yesterday):

Unique Subreddits Unique Moderators Combined Subscribers 3,314 15,676 1,502,606,382
You can find the full list of subreddits participating on Modcoord.
What can you do to help?
Make noise, contact the Admins and voice your displeasure. Make memes, post about it, comment about it.
We do ask that you don’t pressure other communities to join in, though, through modmailing them or messaging Moderators directly. This is incredibly spammy and, at the end of the day, there are subreddits (such as support ones) who should be staying open due to their importance to many people.
Will we go private?
Please do not harass any mods about this decision.
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2023.06.10 19:29 Cmarch90 Am I just in the minority?

So I can't have THC, it makes me straight up hallucinate and sick as fuck. I've never had anything with THC and didn't end up puking. The last time I tried was like 3 years ago. Fast forward to about 2 months ago, I started taking CBD gummies (brand: Swag) and I finally felt like maybe I had found something I could take for insomnia/anxiety. I was taking them daily and felt fine. They just mellowed me out. Fast forward yet again to this past week. Whenever I took one, I felt incredibly loopy/out of it. To the point my 13 year old made a comment asking if I had been drinking (sober for almost a year).
Then, last night it got worse. I took my gummy before bed like always and within 20 minutes I felt FUCKED UP. Like room spinning, apparently my youngest son came in my room and I barely even remember it. I hated the way I was feeling and just forced myself to keep my eyes closed and try to fall asleep but my heart was racing and I was freaking out. I hate the feeling of being intoxicated now after quitting drinking. It's the worst. I ended up sitting up and leaning over the bed and vomited. I couldn't physically get up and take myself to the bathroom, I tried and it was like my feet were just bolted to the floor. My 13 yr old heard me puking and brought in a bucket for me. It went on for no less than 2 hours. It got to the point I was just dry heaving and choking on my own gagging, all while being totally out of it panicking thinking I was going to die. It was intense. I started puking up blood (I think it was either from irritation to my throat, or my sinuses drying out but idk for sure) but either way I was non stop puking. Everytime I would feel "better", as soon as I moved even the slightest amount it would come back and I'd be puking again. I had to sit completely still to get any type of relief and for the room to stop sitting. Even blowing my nose was too much movement.
What the fuck gives man. I've been taking these gummies for a couple months now but it's like my body all of sudden doesn't like them? Idk.
And no, it wasn't just a stomach bug or something. I felt perfectly fine up until taking the gummies, and I feel fine today (aside from my throat feeling like it's on fire and body aches from violent vomiting). And it wasn't just throwing up, I felt FUCKED UP. Like I had spent all night chugging vodka on an empty stomach.
I won't be taking them anymore, which sucks because they initially did help with my anxiety. Has anyone else had an experience like mine? I keep reading that CBD doesn't get you fucked up because it doesn't have psychoactive properties or whatever. But it definitely did get me fucked up, in the worst way imaginable.
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2023.06.10 19:29 mmmmkayyyyy Bye reddit and bye r/pan

Bye reddit and bye pan
It was a giddy time when I created this account for pan use four years ago! There were the space corgis, the kid who used to give tours of his backyard, people making friends and being hilarious. There weren't any influencers, or any of the hierarchies and monetization that you see on other platforms. I fucking loved amateur pan, shout out to the OGs!
During and after the beta, I argued hard for reddit to keep that anarchic and connective spirit by continuing the limited windows for casual users, while also giving tools to subs to use it however they wanted to. I appreciate that reddit engaged with us in seeming good will, but obviously they went another way :). pan became something I wasn't that interested in but a lot of people were and that's cool.
With reddit's API shutdown, and the shutdown of what I call Pan II, it's just more intentional destruction of spaces to play and do DIY, and do things that make reddit more valuable as a destination, and it pisses me off. Racists, TERFS, and Nazis fucking flourish on this platform and apparently that's fine, but making reddit more fun and accessible is not? Fuck that.
I haven't used this account in forever but I'm deleting my comments and posts for all my accounts, and then deleting the accounts, and just came to this one. I'm not posting big goodbyes anywhere else but I guess I wanted to say something here because it's sad. I still have old pan videos and screenshots on my phone that make me laugh. TY to the developers and the folks who were mods at the beginning, you were really great. Here's some of the animal stars of early pan, enjoy!!

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2023.06.10 19:29 Lower-Set-1530 My son had IUGR. Maybe?

I had my son back in November of 2020 and I was induced due to my baby measuring at 32 weeks while at 36 weeks. This was almost 3 years ago so the details of what my OB told me is a bit fuzzy, but I remember her mentioning IUGR and me being emotional thinking it was something that I did wrong in my pregnancy. I will never forget beating myself up as a 18 year old mother over that. I just accepted induction was what needed to be done to help my baby come out healthy.
Until recently, I was going through my sons old hospital records and realized he was born at 5Ibs and 13oz (18in) at his birth of 37 weeks. I was a young first time mom and didn’t really do any research on anything.
But today I decided to look into what she said my son had. And according to what I looked up from personal experiences from mothers and statistics, his birthweight wasn’t under the normal range. At the end of the day I am not doctor and will NEVER think I know more than medical professionals.
At the end of the day, today my son is a happy and healthy toddler which is all that matters. But I can’t help but wonder, could he of been misdiagnosed? Could I have had a normal pregnancy and had him all the way to 40 weeks without induction medication?
I guess we’ll never know.
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2023.06.10 19:29 Agatha-7129 [35F] Make the weekend fun

I am a 35 year old woman with a wide range of hobbies and enjoy reading, travelling, food and cooking, movies and sports. If you enjoy these too, then we can share our experiences and insights together. If you don't like these then we can also try new things together, after all life is all about experimentation and exploration. If you're over 34 and think you're a fun, funny and kind person, then get in touch and let's make more great memories together! (Of course, if you are a big fat person, then forget it, I don't want to eat until I'm bursting with you!)
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2023.06.10 19:29 Vallstrax How do you identify a 30 year old ceiling fan that doesn't have any sort of marking on the outside?

I just bought a house to fix up and I love this FSN that us already in it. I want to put them in the rest of the house but... I don't see anywhere on them that identifies what brand or model they are? Any ideas?
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2023.06.10 19:29 dragonredx Upgrade from RX580 suggestions.

I need to upgrade my PCs GPU, as the 8gb RX580 I've had for 3 years is getting a bit long in the tooth, and now that the prices have gone back down I'm looking to upgrade. But I'm not sure what one to go for.
I want to stay with AMD as I've never had a problem with them. And I have a budget of about £230. I was looking at the RX 6600, But wanted to check with people who know what they're talking about before buying it. Any advice?
My specs: MSI b450 gaming plus max Motherboard AMD RYZEN 5 3600 32 GB DDR4 Corsair TX850M PSU
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2023.06.10 19:29 Saatanansinappipuuro Language problem solving

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2023.06.10 19:29 mcLovinrules4ever Day 16 of asking for a Baby in Yellow theory

The Baby in Yellow is a game that my seven year old brother showed me. The game is great and follows a babysitter doing babysitter things… until things go wrong. The game is really short, but packs so much into it. The game got a huge update 16 days ago. The game is about $4 on steam and free on mobile. The game isn’t really played much on YouTube, so a Game Theory episode or a GT Live play through would give the game some great publicity. I plan on asking for as long as it takes at about 12:30 central time. Thanks for reading!!
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2023.06.10 19:29 redlippedbatfish Dundee Duke?

Hiya folks,
Just recently moved to Portsmouth and had a couple of drunk guys talk to me about my accent. I'm from Aberdeen but Dundee came up in conversation and I'm going to quote exactly what they said (bare in mind they were plastered);
"What is it about Dundee voices and deep? Something about duke and their voices go all deep and gravely?"
Duke? What the hell? I asked if they meant jute (jam and journalism) multiple times but they insisted it was duke/juke. Fella then proceeded to roleplay as someone typing at a desk and told me to come up and say "wow this duke is wonderful".
I've been googling non-stop for the past 20 hours trying to find what he could be talking about - my partner is from Arbroath and has no idea, I'm obviously Aberdonian and only lived in Dundee for a year so I've no clue. Is this some type of English stereotype of Dundonians that exists?
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2023.06.10 19:29 Lj1701 Tongue piercing help!!!! Worried.

So my tongue piercing has been in for years, probably about 8 years! I thought it felt a bit strange today and looked at the bottom and it looks like this. What the hell is going on?! :( it’s not painful! Just looks like a skin tag on the bottom of my tongue! Any idea what it is? Should I be worried?
29 Female Uk
https://ibb.co/DfvnGT4 https://ibb.co/mXkWKCZ https://ibb.co/rsQZLNw
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2023.06.10 19:28 haberveriyo Explore 1,400-year-old ruins, submerged in Eastern China - Atlantis of China

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2023.06.10 19:28 Low_Plant7184 35FThose who want to find resonance here,

Hello everyone, I am Nana and I am 35 years old. I'm here looking for men over 35 to make friends.
I am someone who loves to travel, eat and read. I usually like to travel to different cities and try all kinds of fresh food. At the same time, I also like reading very much. It can not only broaden my horizons, but also bring me more new thinking.
Many friends around me are women, and I want to meet some male friends, chat, watch movies, go shopping, and share every bit of life. If you are like me and like traveling, food and reading, please contact me.
Looking forward to becoming friends with you
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2023.06.10 19:28 transcribersofreddit wholesomegreentext Image "She be gettin that D sharp"

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2023.06.10 19:28 Ratlinger Please describe a typical week for your family

I didn't have a very normal childhood and have never been close with my family. Now that I'm pregnant, i have been thinking more about what family life will look like for us. I know i would like to play board games, as that was something i wish my parents had done with my brother and i. But i can't really imagine any activities a family does together, like regularly.
What do you do together on a random tuesday, both parents home from work and kiddo picked up from daycare/kindergarten/school?
How about weekends?
When the child is 1, 5, 10, 15 years old?
How often/how long does the child play by themself?
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2023.06.10 19:28 Yevrah31 Is this a bug?

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2023.06.10 19:28 ProofCat4 I F23 was seeing a guy M29 and he ghosted me after meeting his friends. What should I do to get a response from him?

Hi! So about 3 weeks ago this guy and i started talking. He’s not my usual type of person to date , but I just got out of a six-year relationship and I’m trying to find someone new and different. So he asked me to come over for memorial day weekend, and I set boundaries saying I don’t sleep around I don’t do things if there’s not gonna be some thing coming out of this if that makes sense . I came over & we met. But I could tell since the age difference he had a bit of a drinking problem, and that his friends definitely did too. both of our parents died so we bonded over that and little things. And he made the first step to say hey, I really really like you. He went to his niece who was there with us and told her he was scared I was gonna hurt him, that I am not his usual type of woman he would go after. So it felt like we were kind in the same boat of liking each other, but being scared to commit because we never really spoke about it. Then he pulled this move of grabbing me and screaming at his friends how hot i was (which made me feel uncomfortable) or that could just be me and never being shown that type of affection but he was drunk, so who knows if he actually meant that. Which I told him several times I can’t really trust what you say because you’re drunk and he’s always said a drunk person speaks, sober thoughts.. we spent four more days together , we cooked food together. I met his family and his friends. I even took him to the hospital because he put a gash in his hand while drunk to open a beer bottle with a knife. The day he took me home, was the weirdest part about it , the morning time went fine He was just very hung over, I brought him food , took care of his puppy, even cleaned his house. I gave him some space because he wasn’t feeling well and did my own thing for a while. He started getting sick and then offered to take me home. But barely touched me and I summed it up as too he just threw up. He wasn’t feeling well. He didn’t want to kiss me or something. He texted me the day after, posted a photo of us but then completely ignored me and stopped replying while I was hanging out with his sister when he was at work(they live together). That day I went home and never heard from him again. His sister said that she doesn’t know and doesn’t put herself in drama, but all his friends that were talking to me even his niece just completely ghosted me too. I had to get a book back from him. It was very sentimental, It was my mothers. And I had to give him one of his shirts back. Took me a week to get an answer out of him (he blocked me on all social media platforms besides iphone texting ) he said to pick it up and leave him alone. My question is how do I get clarity from a situation I can’t get clarity from. I don’t know what this was to him but in my mind, I can only think he was afraid to commit to me, or he used me completely because he was on a bender. None of this makes sense , also, should I get tested? I mean if he brought me around his friends so fast who’s to say he doesn’t do this a lot.
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2023.06.10 19:28 EmbarrassedTravel801 A memory from my childhood which I look back at differently as a adult

I was 6 when I started to recall and remember things , but I think this started way before . I have always been a daddy girl I was always close with my dad but my mum had this weird jealously I would be 6 and blamed by my mum and my dad for “causing arguments “ between them I also remember my dad picking me up during an argument and my mum screaming saying “I was turning him again her” or “ I was taking him away from her “ she was going crazy I walked back into the house with a bunch of stuff smashed up and the house upside down , my mother had really violent ways of saying things like “I’m gonna stab you “ to my dad I’ve always known she was some what emotionally abusive to him
I’m an adult now with a 6 year old I look back at it and can’t imagine my mum saying that to me now or me blaming my 6 year old it was very odd really odd I don’t know if it was a mental health issue or something but my mum always blamed me for my parents arguing maybe that’s why I grew up to be such a overthinker or a very anxious person
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2023.06.10 19:28 Purgatory-System Ideas for better immersion in DD2

I love DD2. I think about every change or addition is an improvement from DD1; candle system, hero shrines, stress, relationships, Act structure, I even like the pacing through the different regions.
But there's one aspect that I absolutely adored in DD1 that is lacking in DD2, and I think that can be mended very easily for people who want it.
It's hard to feel attached to a run when there's no carry over in the game aside from collecting candles, memories, and hero shrines. DD1 felt very immersive in the sense that you can create elaborate backstories in your mind about the characters; their skills kept constant after upgrades, and when they died, everything was gone. Death is far less punishing in DD2 in my opinion, and for masochistic players like me, it can be dull.
But that level of immersion is reduced when relationships and abilities are reset after each run. I know memories and hero shrines help with this, but it doesn't affect the player experience as much for me. Also, Acts 1-5 is about the extent of content right now, which is arguably less than DD1.
Granted, this game just released. I'm sure there will be more content, but this is my input on what I'd love to see later.
Ideas for better immersion
  1. Skill upgrades and relationships carry over to the next run/Act and remain until that hero dies. Hero death is permanent until an entirely new save is made. There can be a limited resurrection utility for players who want this challenge of permanent death that is more forgiving. Of course, if all heroes die, then the entire save is gone and must start anew. Hero shrine progress doesn't need to be reset for this, either.
Honestly this could be implemented through the candle system like memories, or a different mode of playing in the game beyond the Stygian Fire modulating the difficulty.
  1. Multiple end-of-act bosses - players fight 1 based off RNG or a rotation, or multiple bosses in succession on higher difficulty. But this benefit can also be achieved through more than 5 Acts with less mechanical changes to the game.
  2. More DD1/Hamlet Easter eggs. Several instances like Dismas recounting Reynauld, Flagellant's health degrading, and Antiquarian's shift to antagonism are good examples of this. More of this would be pretty nice. This will probably come naturally with future additions to the game.
Thoughts, agreements, disagreements and ideas are welcome.
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2023.06.10 19:28 Porphyrogenitus87 2000 year old sapphire ring worn by Caligula

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2023.06.10 19:28 Capncrunch1998 [WV] job question for custody

Opinions on what I should do. So a little background I’m a USMC veteran got out in 2020, I have a 3 yr old child that I just spent almost a year and a half fighting for custody. The custody is, I have month on month off bc mom moved to a different state to be with family. But once my daughter starts pre-k next fall I will have school year and mom gets summers and major holidays.
My dilemma: i accrued 20k in debt fighting for 50/50 custody (which I did get and would do over again). But to my parents not a bank…credit cards. So my goal is to pay them back as soon as possible. I feel my ex will fight to get custody again and school year. This wouldn’t be so bad if she was stable and ik my daughter wouldn’t move a bunch like my ex had to growing up. If my ex would move back it’s week on week of which I think would be more beneficial for my daughter. I applied last year for a university police department and failed on a psych eval, it sounds bad but this was during my ongoing divorce and custody battle and the reason for the failure was the medicine I was placed on. Since I have gotten off the medication and switched to a medication that works for me and would allow me to work for the police department. Meanwhile while waiting on the police job I applied and accepted a job working for the electric union closest to me since working for them I have a great opportunity to be accepted into their Apprenticeship (applied before the police job and didn’t get in for lack of experience, which I have since working for them and becoming a union member) I applied again this year on the last day. The apprenticeships is a five year commitment where I get raises every year and after I’ll be making 34$ (take home) plus benefits which include 7.50 an hour for my retirement for every hour worked, a vacation check I pay into while I work for every 6 full months of 40 hours weeks I will receive 7500$. The issue I worry about is the work is over 13 counties and if I am sending my daughter to school I could see issues with getting her in the bud and such depending on when I worked and where it work. There is also a layoff after each job currently (could change) it can be anywhere from a month to 8 months. But during the apprenticeship I get to use my va benefits which gives me roughly an extra 1000 a month for housing year round if I spread it out or 1200 for 9 months a year.
The cop job should I apply again and get through it and hired would be 23 an hour with somewhat regular raises I don’t know where it caps out but after 5 years my daughter cna go to colleges there for free not to mention they have the best health Care probably in the state. They said all the overtime I could want as well and they are 12 hour shifts.
The big dilemma is the cop job would give me of a steady schedule and dependable income and make it harder if my ex wanted to try and fight me for custody in the future but I feel the union job would better set my daughter and myself up. With me my daughter always comes first and I’m struggling with this. But if I accept the apprenticeship I’m locked in or I burn the bridge forever. And I don’t feel I can’t down union job if I haven’t got confirmation of the cop job but it can take up to a year to find out and I would have to go for three months of training. Any advise will be greatly appreciated!
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